Would you find this relationship ok. Age difference

[Hellofromtheothersideee]

Male-24 years old
female-almost 31 years old.

I don't think it's inappropriate but I can't imagine wanting to date a 24 year old in my thirties.

It’s okay, yes. But if looking for this to be a long-term thing you obviously need to be on the same page. A 31yo woman may be more inclined for marriage and children very soon, whilst a 24yo may not be at that stage yet. But if you’re both wanting the same thing it’s absolutely fine.

I was going to say similar.
I know of a situation where the guy is one or two years younger than the woman, still lived with family, and basically lives now between her place and the other place, had a child together since, plus two of his own from a previous relationship whom he used to cram in to one room at his other place and obviously had no plans to do otherwise and held out. As the gf was waiting for permanent housing, and when she got it he asked if he could use her place to have his kids for his contact time, so although I think yes, if you are to be serious you have to, to an extent take on one another's lives, as she has a child from previous too, but so yeah lol that is where he has his kids when he sees them, all crammed in to one small room with her eldest lol.

Mind you there are older men who are just as bad.

I don't see the problem. Assuming both parties are happy, then it's fine.

Between consenting adults, age gaps are of no concern in my opinion.

In my early-to-mid 20s, I had relationships with people my own age right up to 20+ years older than me. Each had their own merits and worked for the duration we wanted.

That's the ages of me and DH when we got together , 18 years later happily married with a ds10. People did think it a big age gap when we first got together though.

Not at all - this is normal.