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To not know how to play with baby?

6 replies

hulahoopqueen · 29/12/2023 13:34

I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing.
DD is 7 months and a total joy, very happy and bright. She's doing a sort of army crawl so can get about wherever she likes, but I still feel at my wits end.
I just don't know what to do to keep her occupied! I often find myself putting her on the floor with stuff to play with, and I feel guilty that I'm not "playing" with her more, like in an interactive way. We go to a baby sensory class every week which she seems to enjoy (I join in with the singing and signing etc), but outside of guided groups I don't really know how to play with or interact with her. She's so active that I can't really put her in a buggy or highchair while I get stuff done, she just gets frustrated and tries to escape. She'll only tolerate her jumparoo for a few minutes at a time unless someone sits nearby and talks to her or the TV's on.
Any advice or ideas?

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newyearsresolurion · 29/12/2023 13:36

Building blocks, reading to her, singing, out for a walk, that will make her tired then its nap time

Iwishiwasasilentnight · 29/12/2023 13:37

On ceebies there is a programme called baby club which is full of ideas of how to play with your baby.

For cleaning I would put her in the floor of the room you’re busy in and chat to her as you’re going whatever you need to do.

Sapphire387 · 29/12/2023 13:38

I kind of feel the same and I'm on my third child! It's an awkward age in terms of feeling guilty about not keeping them 'entertained'.

I play classical music to her and tell myself it's helping her brain develop.

The 'That's not my...' books are also cute.

At this age, a trip to the park is entertainment. Do you manage to get out every day? I know it's tricky sometimes.

Hermittrismegistus · 29/12/2023 13:38

Wear her in a sling and just chat to her as you go about daily chores.

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 29/12/2023 14:21

It's all pretty repetitive at that age. I did lots of stacking cups and other stacking toys, squeaking toys for her, tickling, raspberries. If I was in the kitchen I would give her a very shallow tray of water to play with on her high chair, or plastic bowls and spatulas to play with whilst I was tidying or cleaning or cooking. And a lot of just pointing at stuff, talking to her, copying her sounds, eye contact. Anything that's safe and positively connects you emotionally is good!

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 29/12/2023 14:22

Sling is great if that works for you both too!

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