My in laws make me feel claustrophobic. Started when we got engaged in 2018- they were just really overbearing. Had to put in some boundaries very politely, which went as well as it could, yet, having just told them we are expecting, I'm getting these same feelings again.I'm terrified of what their expectations might be. I try very hard with MIL but she is really serious, always making comments about not seeing us enough, is really intense and I just feel that underneath she hates that I've put boundaries in place and wishes he'd married the girl next door rather than me perhaps. My biggest fear is that I'm going to lose it with MIL one day (she does overstep the mark at times). Does anyone else get these kind of feelings and how do you not let it get to you? How do I accept them for what they are and not let them get to me? I struggle to embrace them and have started to not feel overwhelmed and abit panicky about it.