The final straw was on holiday our dd3 ran in towards the sea he said f this and started walking back to the beach bar. I ran after her and a big wave came and covered her, I managed to get her up but fell down in the process the lifeguard came to pull both of us from the water the resort doctor came and checked us over I have Rheumatoid arthritis and managed to damage a ligament in my toe during the sea struggle. He was in the bar looking on (apparently he couldn't see from his pint glass what was happening). The first thing he asked was where was his phone (it was in my beach bag and got soaked, it wouldn't turn on)He then said how come his phone isn't working but mine is? Wtf your daughter and I nearly drowned!! I attempted to explain what happened with a resort staff member but he then went in rant and said I owe him an apology as I was looking after his property and it was damaged. He then asked why I didn't take my bag off before jumping in after our DD. The staff member looked at me in disbelief He said I was irresponsible and he wanted me to pay for his phone. The member asked me if I was safe and okay. I was so angry but instead, I just walked off with our daughter and cried. Some more staff members and holidaymakers came to console me but I was so embarrassed and humiliated all I could do is let out a little shriek. He then send me an email invoice for his phone and give me 3 suggestions of phones he liked. So 3 weeks before my 35th bday I'm getting divorced. AIBU