We had a lovely day too! Did quite a bit of prep on Christmas Eve which helped.
Yes, I partly fucked-up the veggie nut roast, and it all took longer than usual and I HATE my mum's oven. But we produced a lovely meal, eventually!
There were just 4 of us - me, husband, the teen, my mum, it was relaxed and low-key. My sister's family were at their home hosting her partner's family. Sometimes we are all together, sometimes we aren't.
The stockings were fab, our presents were too - no duds or thoughtless shit. People either went with the lists/suggestions or got it right if they went out on their own. My husband bought me a gorgeous necklace I saw in November and didn't expect at all! I showeo him in books and other things he likes! He's amazing, the best husband and father, kind, patient, generous, thoughtful. He did all the washing up after lunch.
My teen has substantial poor MH at the moment but made an appearance, conversed, was affectionate, present and, most importantly, alive. That's the best gift of all.
We didn't drink too much. We didn't argue. I got slightly tetchy at the oven but it wasn't personal!
It was a truly lovely day.
Today we are in pyjamas, eating snacks as we need and reading/relaxing.
I love Christmas and we all work like mad to make it good for everyone.