To ask what your New Year’s resolutions are?

[loveanafter8]

Mine are giving up social media completely. The less I know about people the better.

what are your resolutions for 2024?

i dont really set anything for january. i find i still have loads of goodies left in december and if i fell they need to all be eaten by jan i will gorge even more. also they have veganaury in january and i like to try the new temp foods. jan is a dark month, grey and miserable to i dont think its in my best interests to be all im going to lose weight and do this and that, i just wont be as bad a around christmas and slowly ease off the unhealthy habits and then by february im hopefylly at the stage where im not eating chocolate every day, my routine is better and ive started to do this that and the other and im startinf in a better mindset. so by this time next year im hoping i will weigh less and move more and be off my phone more, it just wont be really starting in january lol

@CharlieCoCo Absolutely. The weather is absolutely brutal at this time of year and trying to do anything that involves discipline and self denial is going to be a million times harder than it is in the summer.

Priority for me is getting through January without my mental health nosediving, and if that involves a bit of comfort eating, I won't beat myself up over it.

I think I'm going to reach out for some help with my mental health. Nobody in real life knows or would guess, but I'm very depressed. I've had a rough couple of years with bereavement etc & made it through okay but I struggled to find any joy in Christmas at all which isn't like me. I actually struggle to find joy in anything anymore. So I'm going to make myself feel better & try not to exist through life, and actually enjoy it. My logical mind knows I am fortunate. I have a beautiful DD, a job I'm proud of, I live in a beautiful area. But I need some help & I've decided that's ok.