So it’s Xmas eve at 11.20am my newly divorced mother and her boyfriend are staying with us over Xmas they were meant to arrive lunchtime yesterday (I asked for timing weeks in advance) and sent a text saying they’re visiting a friend on the way down and will probably arrive today instead (it’s a 3hr drive here). The friend is a good two hour drive from here I’ve messaged now at 11am for an eta today and silence. Our DS is 5 months and we’re hosting them although all off for Christmas Day to my lovely in laws too so we have a bedtime like 630/7pm from which time DS has a very long breastfeed so I’m basically upstairs until bedtime. AIBU being so annoyed at having no updates on when they’re arriving? DM has complained she doesn’t see DS enough but she is literally leaving on Boxing Day so hasn’t really made it a priority… DH thinks they are probably not awake yet as they seem to be partying a lot and frankly on a different time zone to us!