This is my 1st Christmas as a single Mum. My DD sees her Dad every few weeks for a few hours (when it suits him generally). I don't have any communication with his parents at all anymore apart from occasionally seeing them when I drop off and collect my DD from seeing her Dad.
I have presumed that at Christmas and birthdays and any other event we would buy for our own parents. For example I would buy gifts for my parents from DD and my ex would buy for his parents from DD. I am now worrying last minute that he won't have thought of this and that his parents won't get gifts from DD and will miss out. Although I don't have a relationship with them DD does and I don't want them to feel left out.
I've only just thought of this and it's Christmas Eve! Do I stay quiet, go with my presumption and if anything is said tell them that my ex should have sorted it. Or do I ask my ex if he has sorted it and if not get them a last minute present today?
YABU - Ask and go and get them a gift if necessary
YANBU - They are his parents and you have enough to do caring for DD alone and arranging Christmas for her and your family. His parents are his responsibility.
I know I'm probably just overthinking and it's my anxiety kicking in but any advice will be appreciated thank you x