I'll keep this as brief as possible...
Me and DH are going on holiday for a week over new year with his family. So naturally I figured I would spend Xmas day with my own family, as most years we spend it with his lately.
I invited him along and he declined stating he wants to be with his family which I found unreasonable given we are going on holiday with his.
Anyway, I decided to go and stay at my family's from Xmas eve to help with the dinner preparations and he starts kicking off saying I'm being completely selfish leaving him alone Xmas eve.
AIBU to think he was the one being an arse here and that staying at family's Xmas Eve to Xmas day is no big deal under the above circumstances?