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To ask how long before you said "I love you"...

47 replies

Nata2345 · 21/12/2023 21:24

And how long you've been together 😊

OP posts:
Beckafett · 21/12/2023 22:40

He said it after 3 dates that he was falling in love with me via text. Took me a few months and a monumental mess up from my end to realise that someone could genuinely love me, all of me- and we've never looked back x

Hoglet70 · 21/12/2023 22:41

About two weeks, together 15 years.

DontGoGran · 21/12/2023 22:43

Me - 3 weeks, DH - 5/6 weeks (he said he was scared, bless him). Together almost 9 years, married for 5.

KimberleyClark · 21/12/2023 23:05

Three months - been together 33 years.

dottydaily · 21/12/2023 23:11

2 months,10 years together…

DreamingInPhosphorescence · 21/12/2023 23:18

Four years. Which was two years after we got engaged…

Christmasbrie · 21/12/2023 23:21

4 months-ish. DH said it to me after 2 weeks, I remember replying to him saying that I was falling in love with him but I didn't want to say it until I meant it with every part of me. We have been together for 16 years now and married for 12. It's had its ups and downs but even through the hard times we work together as we know it's worth it.

Mumof2NDers · 21/12/2023 23:26

The I love you thing? Can’t remember.
The date we started Dating. Can’t remember that either! 😂
We started dating sometime in August 98.
We got married 24th November 98. About 10 weeks after we started dating.
just celebrated 25 years.

ShinyBandana · 21/12/2023 23:27

About a week! It was wild. The words just leapt out of my mouth and he said it straight back.
We’ve been together 18 years. Married for 16 of those.

SweetFemaleAttitude · 21/12/2023 23:28

3 months. Been together 21 years.

I said it first.

SweetFemaleAttitude · 21/12/2023 23:29

Oh and married for 16 of them.

LoveRules · 21/12/2023 23:36

A week after first meeting when we first slept together.

xmas13 · 21/12/2023 23:56

About a week

xmas13 · 21/12/2023 23:56

Married now and been together a year and a half

LuluBlakey1 · 21/12/2023 23:59

DH said it on our 3rd date and told me we would get married. Took me 3 months to say it and about 6 months to say yes to his 3 x proposal. Been married 14 years.

HangingOver · 22/12/2023 00:00

3 weeks and seven years

FilthyforFirth · 22/12/2023 00:02

2/3 weeks, something like that. We had known each other since teenagers though. Together a decade married 7 years.

Flamingogirl08 · 22/12/2023 00:02

So it's a bit cringe but I honestly knew on our first date that I 'would' love him.

On date 5 he told me he loved me and I said it back.

Together 6 years and it really just feels like the beginning, we just fit.

Again cringe, sorry!

OrlandointheWilderness · 22/12/2023 00:10

Loved him instantly. Said it after 8 months. Together 2 1/2 years and blissfully happy.

Didimum · 22/12/2023 00:14

6 months for me, a year for him. Been together 11 years, married for 7.

InSpainTheRain · 22/12/2023 00:14

After approx 10 days. Been together 29 years.

Cocolapew · 22/12/2023 00:15

Think about a week, married with in a year and have been married 28 years.

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