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Knowing the line between acquaintances and friends

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Rockingaroundthecrimbotree · 21/12/2023 13:41

Is this an ND thing?
I am awaiting an autism and adhd diagnosis.

I can never seem to tell the difference between being acquaintances and actual friendship? When does one turn into another?
So many times I think I’m friends with someone and it turns out they didn’t feel the same about me.

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Here4thechocs · 21/12/2023 14:45

It very well could be a thing with ND. My son is 13. I worry he doesn’t have friends, in the real sense of the word but he thinks he does. On school breaks , he doesn’t ask to go see any of these “friends “ and they don’t ask to come see him, either.
im getting a bit concerned but its worth stating he’s on the spectrum of autism. He’s high functioning….

I do hope you find the answers you need & deserve. All the very best.

SwordBilledHummingbird · 21/12/2023 14:53

I'm autistic and struggle a lot with knowing when an acquaintance becomes a friend. It just seems to be one of those things that neurotypicals just 'know' but I can't fathom how.

Mustreadabook · 21/12/2023 15:10

Is there a line? It's just a gradual thing I think. How did you find out that your 'friends' didn't think the same?

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