I left my ex a few years ago, I didn't love him anymore but still cared for him and we wanted different things. I moved on quick & married DH who I love so much not so long ago. I have mutuals with my ex so have always checked on him now and again through them as I know he took the breakup hard and was overjoyed when I was told he'd met someone and they're really happy. Me and DH have beeen trying for a baby for over a year and have had 3 MC, each one was heartbreaking. With the last MC, we bumped into my ex and his partner at the EPU, so I knew she must be pregnant. When I was in the scanning room he spoke to my mum and said 'Hope X is well, it's a awful place for anyone to be, we've just had the all clear and been discharged' when my mum told me this I was so happy for them as I'd been in EPU to many times with bad news. I had to go back for another scan a week later and unfortunately for me and DH it was bad news again (3rd loss) ex has since announced pregnancy and had gender reveal and their due date is the same month one of our babies should have been, so our babies would have been the same age😫Although no one tells me stuff now as it hurts to much. As happy as I am for him - It hurts me, not because I wish it was me & him. But cos I wish it was me too with DH. It's weird seeing someone you was with for so long have what you want! I am not jealous of him but I'm jealous/upset cos I want a baby too and I keep having miscarriages. Not much point to this post.
Just want to clarify I have absolutely zero feelings for my ex, there's always going to be the element of care as we was together for years, but I don't have romantic feelings. I must be emotional as it's one of our babies suppose to be due date in 4 days
Just up with a blocked nose and can't sleep.
So my AIBU is AIBU to be upset over this?