A few months ago, I started talking to an acquitance, a young woman who had a hard time after an ugly break-up with my DH's ex-wife. She also went through some very difficult moments with her toxic family and got bullied by collegues (she and the ex worked together). So I supported her like I could. At some point, she started taking too much marijuana, developped psychosis and went to get professional help. She started doing better after that, we chatted a lot and I felt like we bonded over different things. I considered her a sweet, smart and sensitive girl.
She just moved into a newly purchased appartment and told me she had a panic attack, but was better and was excited about being a homeowner.
A few hours later, I got the following message:
Anuta, your husband doesnt love you.
You deserve better and you know it.
You are strong.
You have always been. (she doesn`t know me long enough to state that)
The salvation is in the forgiveness.
WTF?!
I asked her what this was and later thought that maybe she took some substance (she also took sleeping pills as shes a nurse who works night shifts) and it made her hallucinate or something.
She answered the next day she was half sleepy when she wrote this. No other explanation. I asked again where this was coming from, she answered from her subconsciousness (!). I asked if she took something, she said no and told me to talk to her and my DHs common ex, then I would understand. She knows that I would never talk to that woman who offended me in front of her. And in general, how do you even start this kind of a conversation? No other explanation.
I wrote to her that you just cant say this kind of things without an explanation, its hurtful and offensif. And my DH was always nice to her, so its not nice towards him either.
No answer the whole day.
AIBU to be upset? Or should just forget about it?