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I'm obsessed with housing estates

190 replies

Namechangepleas · 20/12/2023 01:15

I'm going to struggle to put this into words. Over the past few weeks I've become obsessed with new build housing estates.
That sounds ridiculous I know but just thinking about the makes me cringe but I also can't stop. I've been driving around new build estates in my area just for the sake of it to look at them and also searching for them on rightmove.
It's more the estate its self than the individual houses. I feel like I'm in the film vivarium when I'm in one.
I know this makes absolutely no sense but has anyone else ever thought this?/

OP posts:
GoodlifeGlow · 20/12/2023 08:52

I hate them. Tiny roads, so many houses and windows they make me feel so claustrophobic I can’t wait to leave.

In reality most of my friends live on them, the houses are fine in isolation but them all clumped together looking the same just gives me the creeps! Enjoy your new hobby.

Namechangepleas · 20/12/2023 08:52

Mumsnet is ridiculous sometimes. How has this turned into me and others looking down on people or sneering!! Absolutely mental

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Fieldofbrokenpromises · 20/12/2023 08:53

penjil · 20/12/2023 01:43

Most new-build estates have to be 40% social housing, don't they?

Around here we are lucky if it’s 20%, often reduced when the building starts

Handsnotwands · 20/12/2023 08:55

there's one near Swindon that i'm a bit obsessed with (Wichelstowe). i don't want to live there but it's just.....weird....it's actually very well done as these things go but it is alien. a bit uncanny valley. i find myself imagining the people and yeah, it's kind of like a film set or something. anyway i hear you OP.

TisTheDarnSeason · 20/12/2023 08:55

I think I get you, OP. We have friends who live on one of these estates just outside Glasgow, and family who live on one near Aberdeen. They're kind of fascinating to drive around.

For the Glasgow friends they have a good community of families with young kids which suits them there. It's also quite spectacular at Christmas with houses trying to outdo each other with lights!

Not my cup of tea tbh. Both families moved out of beautiful period properties to live in these cookie-cutter boxes. Warmer though, I guess!

I'd love to be a town planner...

Vinoveritass · 20/12/2023 08:56

I sort of get it. They are like toy towns. You feel like people get sucked into them and live in a sort of twilight zone where the outside world can't penetrate, you can't reliably get takeaways or taxis or parcels delivered as they don't come up properly on maps. You could definitely get lost on a big one, I have!

Desecratedcoconut · 20/12/2023 08:56

Imagine having to try this hard to feel superior about how other people live?

Mind you, there was a poster on MN the other week who said she sought out threads in which posters were struggling financially so that she could feel better about her own circumstances.

AndThatWasNY · 20/12/2023 08:59

penjil · 20/12/2023 01:43

Most new-build estates have to be 40% social housing, don't they?

Just in case no one has pointed out this is totally wrong. We don't build social housing hardly in this country. It's "affordable" housing which is an absolute bollocks term and completely misused.

valadon68 · 20/12/2023 09:00

I don't think it's unusual OP! Ok, new builds, maybe. But lots of people are interested in the fate of historic estates originally designed to foster social welfare which went wrong such as the Hulme Crescents, Pruitt-Igoe, Fatima Mansions in Dublin etc. Christiane F and Gropiusstadt. It is probably a bit self-serving if you scratch below the surface, but very human. Someone who knows about the sociology of architecture would unpack it much better than I could.

SleepingStandingUp · 20/12/2023 09:00

Namechangepleas · 20/12/2023 01:26

No no no I couldn't think of anything worse!! I don't want to live in one I just like driving around them sometimes they're like a maze

So more a ooojhhh look what the unfortunates have to live in? Golly I'm glad I'm not like that but I do like to look at them?

Sumerian · 20/12/2023 09:03

I love this OP. We live in a town where the local plan is to build 4000 new houses. But the town is surrounded by green belt agricultural land. Theres a massive 800 home estate being built, but then there are several pockets of "executive homes" (4 bed detached, tiny garden, utterly unaffordable) which seem to be in clusters of 50 homes or so. I have been tempted to have a look at their show homes.

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/12/2023 09:03

If anyone is genuinely interested in the architecture and not in sneering at those who are less fortunate or with inferior taste this is an interesting Instagram account. https://www.instagram.com/modernistestates/

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/modernistestates

clarepetal · 20/12/2023 09:04

This made me laugh! They are like mazes, there's one near me that lots of my sons school friends live on. I always get lost in it.

mumda · 20/12/2023 09:05

You can do it on Google street view.

willWillSmithsmith · 20/12/2023 09:06

I suppose it depends what your motivation is. If it’s an interest in planning, build, style etc then fine but if it’s to look down on those living on one then that’s not fine.

I used to quite enjoy looking round show homes years ago.

Myridiculousstomach · 20/12/2023 09:07

I have the opposite - they give me the absolute fear. Nothing to do with looking down on anyone’s housing choices at all (I wish I liked new builds and estate houses from the past 40 years because then I could have a downstairs loo an an ensuite bathroom - they’re rare in the little old non estate houses that I feel comfortable in), it’s a feeling of utter dread as soon as I enter an estate, like everything is closing in on me. Weirdly, I only get the feeling in the orange brick housing estates - I don’t get the fear of the bricks are more stone coloured. Can’t explain it, completely irrational fear. Could never live on one because I’d feel like I was having a panic attack the whole time, so old houses only for me (with the whole host of problems that they bring, sadly),

DinaofCloud9 · 20/12/2023 09:08

groovergirl · 20/12/2023 02:23

Is that pic really of a newish estate? It looks old-fashioned, boxed-in, treeless, cramped and dull. Any parks in these estates? Shops, pools, fun things to do?
Whence comes your attraction to them, OP?

Hmm I suspect this is the type of comment the op was hoping for.

Give0fecks · 20/12/2023 09:10

We have a “posh executive estate” near us where the builder really pushed the boat out to make it individual and feel expensive - it’s massive and sprawling and has really weird features like new builds with thatched roofs and weird walled gardens and fountains. But it is still just a housing estate where the houses are all a bit too close together and they are carbon copies of each other and it feels like stepping into a stepford film set. It’s utterly bizarre.

Kokeshi123 · 20/12/2023 09:10

There's a difference between criticising the style of a housing estate and sneering at the people who live there.

There isn't a lot of choice in the UK due to housing shortages. The people I know who bought these places would rather live somewhere else but didn't have many options.

I think we need to be able to talk about rubbish building standards and poorly thought out locations, otherwise nothing's ever going to improve!

ReadyForPumpkins · 20/12/2023 09:15

ClairDeLaLune · 20/12/2023 03:55

I really shouldn’t say this because it might put ideas in your head but I used to love looking round the show houses on new estates, and looking at the plans of the estates, and which type of houses were where. It’s been more difficult to do this since covid though, you often need an appointment now.

Each to their own, YANBU OP. It’s a harmless hobby.

My parents love doing that and I used to visit a lot of show homes growing up.

AngryBird6122 · 20/12/2023 09:23

I think I live in one of these! But I love it. So I’m not sure 😂

ReadyForPumpkins · 20/12/2023 09:27

I live in one too. There are older houses nearby but I can't afford them. You need a lot more money for the same sized house in the non new build estate area.

AdultHumanFemale · 20/12/2023 09:32

They're people's homes.
The tone of some PPs is questionable.

Needmorelego · 20/12/2023 09:32

@Myridiculousstomach out of curiosity what type of property do you live in?
A street of Victorian detached homes would have been a planned community (or "estate") at one point.
Unless you live in a stand alone cottage or something you most likely live on "an estate".

theduchessofspork · 20/12/2023 09:33

I think it’s that they always look a bit toy town isn’t it. They are arranged like a kid would would build and arrange houses in a fisher price village, ie with not enough space in them, between them, and not enough community space.

It’s better than high rises obviously, but it’s a very clear sign we need the rip up the planing laws and start an again. A friend of mine has a new build flat which is brilliantly designed - I was so surprised because it’s so rare.