Let me please preface this by saying that I am neurdivergent myself, but come from a family and background and era that's very much that you show up and get on with it (I wasn't diagnosed until I was in my mid-30s). I have today attended one of the sessions run by the NHS Trust I work for for ND staff (I'm non-clinical). I do have some very minimal reasonable adjustments in place that don't impact on my work - compressed hours and WFH now and again if I feel necessary.
One of the women is a trainee doctor. She first asked how she and her daughter could both get an ASD assessment because they need one yet their GP has refused to refer them for assessment because they think neither of them are ND.
She has said that she is due to start a role next week that will involve Liaison Psychiatry - she struggles to see more than 1-2 patients per day because of her inability to type up the notes and 'to cope with people'. The service is unpredictable but will be expected to see people as and when they present in A&E - she said she cannot do this as sometimes needs to be alone. Has struggled when working in A&E previously as was unable to see patients. Her colleagues have questioned why it takes three hours to do what everyone else does in 30 minutes.
I get it, I really do. But for example, I know my limitations and would never go for a job that involves significant interaction with people because of the way it makes me feel. I just feel like some jobs are suitable and some aren't - and this is not a suitable one for this individual.