Been married for 6 years. 1 DS 3 years old.
DH has a very demanding and mentally hard job. He has a group of friends (female) he is close with and i am ok with that, i am not a jealous type of wife. What annoys me is he spend most of his time on his phone when we have family time and his son wants to play with him! He has a one friend he likes, calls her “bestie”, and they call each other almost every day! Still fine with it…until this morning when i found out every time he was out on his
lunch (not allowed to have phone with him so he leaves it in the car) he messages me he is ok bla bla bla and he has to go back and have smth to eat, go toilet etc but he ALWAYS CALLS HER for like a 15 mina chat. He went grocery shopping and i called after 1 hr, apparently it was so busy,
queues everywhere, fine, but he did not mentioned he called her for like half an hour. Why hiding it?
he watches porn every night. He always does it often and it never bothers me, i used to like watching some too, but last night maybe 10 pages in his history were for like online cameras etc. he is not tech savvy person so most likely didnt find what he was looking for but HE WAS looking for, wasnt he?! He says these are some pop ups from xxx websites. I could believe one or two but not 10 of them?
please tell me i am overreacting. We are so good together and he treats me so good always, since before we were married, and i have nothing to complain about, no reasons not to trust him but right now i am not sure if i am just being insecure or what? What shall i do? Have no actual proof of anything and he keeps saying nothing is between him and his friend/s and he never looked at any online cams.