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To not take prescribed antibiotics (metronidazole)?

135 replies

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 11:06

Went to the GP on Friday as my post-partum bleeding, which had pretty much stopped, came back with a vengeance. GP took a swab and this morning I got a message saying the swab has shown some anaerobic bacteria, and I’ve been prescribed metronidazole.

I made the mistake of googling it, and I must say the widely reported side effects are not something I’m desperate to experience- particularly in the week before Christmas, when I have a 4 year old, a 2 year old and a newborn to look after and do much I need to do. Especially when, at the moment at least, I feel absolutely fine.

WIBU to not take it- or at least to wait until after Christmas, when I won’t be as busy?

OP posts:
BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 18/12/2023 12:46

Find23334556 · 18/12/2023 12:07

Try them out now before Christmas , I didn’t get on with them I had diarhea and nausea and vomiting so now I tell the docter I’m allergic and can’t take metronzidole and I ask for the alternative.

Stop doing that. It's stupid and dangerous to say you're allergic when you're not.

By all means say you've had a bad reaction previously and would prefer the alternative. But sometimes there isn't a suitable alternative, and if you've told them you're allergic to the only treatment you're going to be in trouble.

Mrsjayy · 18/12/2023 12:47

or Just don't take them you are an adult and can decide on your own. all antibiotics have side effects not everyone suffers from side effects.

Teder · 18/12/2023 12:47

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 12:38

So far the only symptom I have is post partum bleeding, otherwise I’m right as rain - no signs of infection, not even a slightly raised temperature, and actually when a vomiting bug came home from nursery last week I was the only one not to get sick.

Nobody here is going to tell you that you don’t need antibiotics. It’s a week till Christmas. Start the course today and see how you go over the next few days.

TheGirlWhoLived · 18/12/2023 12:48

I too have lots of side affects with various different antibiotics. As long as you don’t drink any alcohol you’ll be fine I reckon

Caterina99 · 18/12/2023 12:52

I’d definitely take them. The alternative is potentially being seriously ill over Christmas, and that sounds like a complete nightmare with a newborn and other small kids.

rolsete · 18/12/2023 12:55

It's projectile vomiting with even the tiniest amount of alcohol by the way. Metronidazole and alcohol don't mix!

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 12:55

JenniferJuniper80 · 18/12/2023 12:43

If you think dying young to stay pretty is the better alternative, then carry on.
You're being beyond ridiculous.

Um… wtf?!
Stay pretty?? What???

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Ginmonkeyagain · 18/12/2023 12:55

The NHS do not prescribe anti biotics for shits and giggles. If you have been advised to take them, then they are needed.

Sepsis can take hold terrifyingly quickly.

Rosiesmydog · 18/12/2023 13:03

I’m currently taking both metronidazole and septrin for a rather horrendous bout of diverticulitis so I’ve got a double whammy of nausea, headaches on top of the diverticulitis symptoms. But I’m just happy that we have the drugs available that can help us so there’s no way I won’t take them

Quartz2208 · 18/12/2023 13:04

But the infection is there and once it starts replicating it can do at a frightening rate. Take them.

i took them no side effects at all and didn’t make my milk taste bitter (was trying to wean my toddler DS at the time and would have happily had it do so. But actually he decided it made it taste nicer

letmeeatinpeace · 18/12/2023 13:05

Ask the GP if there's an alternative you can take if it does give you horrible side effects, and if there isn't ask if they can prescribe anti-sickness meds (if nausea / vomiting is a side effect).

housethatbuiltme · 18/12/2023 13:07

rolsete · 18/12/2023 12:55

It's projectile vomiting with even the tiniest amount of alcohol by the way. Metronidazole and alcohol don't mix!

It's the interruption of electrical heart impulses that is why you are advised not to drink, it can and does cause arrhythmia and even death.

If you where lucky enough to projectile vomit it before it absorbed that was your bodies desperate attempt to rid it from your system, had it mixed and absorbed the situation could be a lot worse than vomiting.

Viviennemary · 18/12/2023 13:07

What a waste of the doctors time and NHS money. YABU.

Cheesyfootballs01 · 18/12/2023 13:08

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 11:53

Bloody hell calm down, and sod off with your assumptions! At no point did I say that I didn’t want to take them so I can drink- I’m breastfeeding so I’m not drinking anyway.

The side effects that most concern me are the anxiety- I’ve had past problems with anxiety and depression which tended to come back in the winter months; bowel problems- another delightful post partum issue I’m currently dealing with is a rectocele and haemorrhoids, which is hideous enough by itself without throwing diarrhoea into the mix.

The GP did also mention in the message that it can make my breast milk taste bitter- we’ve had quite a lot of bumps in the road with breastfeeding so far so I’m wary of doing anything that might set us back.

I might contact the GP and see if there is an alternative I could try instead.

Your last paragraph is the only thing you have said that makes any sense…

FFS can’t anyone do anything on their own without consulting social media!

SwingTheMonkey · 18/12/2023 13:10

I had IV metronidazole in hospital for a very bad infection and didn’t have any side effects. My breast milk was a slightly odd colour but I was on a cocktail of drugs so that could have been caused by any one of them.

5128gap · 18/12/2023 13:12

I decided not to take my ABs for an infection, because, like you, I thought the possible side effects sounded worse than the symptoms.
Because I know best, I decided I would 'listen to my body' and just take them if I started to get ill. Well, suffice to say, it was not the best idea I'd ever had. Because while I was symptom free and smugly knowing best, the thing was multiplying at an alarming rate and the meds required to eventually shift it were way worse and more prolonged. The point is, the outward symptoms don't give always give an accurate view of what the thing is up to behind the scenes. You need to act ASAP to stop it in its tracks.

LemonPeonies · 18/12/2023 13:14

You'd really prefer dying of sepsis, leaving your children behind- over possible mild symptoms over Christmas. Really?

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 13:15

Ok so I contacted the GP and explained my concerns (but did say I was willing to try it if there isn’t a suitable alternative), and she’s prescribed co-amoxiclav instead which I’ve had before with no issues, so all’s well that ends well.

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Wetweatherandmud · 18/12/2023 13:19

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 12:38

So far the only symptom I have is post partum bleeding, otherwise I’m right as rain - no signs of infection, not even a slightly raised temperature, and actually when a vomiting bug came home from nursery last week I was the only one not to get sick.

You have the infection. If you don't take the Metronidazole you will get a life threatening spread of the infection. Just because you have no symptoms at the moment is meaningless because it will be multiplying in your body right now. You need to start taking the medication immediately, and no, there is no suitable alternative.

Silvers11 · 18/12/2023 13:22

@AngeloMysterioso You would be VERY very unreasonable, foolish and downright idiotic not to take the Antibiotics, which your GP thinks you need right now and not in a weeks time. Yes, it means you cannnot have a single drop of Alcohol while you are on them, but surely that is better than being even more unwell and for far longer if you put off taking them for more than a week.

I do sympathise about the no drinking. I was on a Christmas Package last year and I don't drink a lot normally, but there were a number of 'free' glasses of Bucks Fizz at Breakfast, glasses of champagne on several occasions during the break and a bottle of Prosecco in our room on arrival - and I couldn't touch any of it, because I absolutely needed those antibiotics. Had a flare up of Diverticulitis, one lot of antibiotics helped but didn't clear it entirely. Went back to GP 3 days before Christmas and finished up with another course of that antibiotic PLUS the Metronidazole for a week. Still had spells of stomach cramps that took my breath away, but they worked and it gradually improved over our break.

All Medications carry a risk of side-effects, but not everyone gets them. Most people who get nasty side-effects from metronidazole do so because they have had some alcohol. So start taking them NOW. If you do have very bad side effects, go back to your GP, but please TAKE THEM

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 13:24

Why is everyone so convinced that my main concern was not drinking?! I didn’t even mention alcohol…

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SALWARP2023 · 18/12/2023 13:25

Ooh think of all that bacteria rapidly multiplying in your uterus. Think 12 hour wait in A&E. Think if this became sepsis and it ended up being your last Christmas. You are selfish and silly and that is being kind. Take the meds for goodness sake!

Silvers11 · 18/12/2023 13:26

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 13:15

Ok so I contacted the GP and explained my concerns (but did say I was willing to try it if there isn’t a suitable alternative), and she’s prescribed co-amoxiclav instead which I’ve had before with no issues, so all’s well that ends well.

I've just seen your update OP. Hopefully all will be well, but Co-Amoxiclav and Metronidazole don't target exactly the same 'bugs'. I posted about being on 2 anti-biotics at the same time, earlier. One was the metronidazole and the other was Co-Amoxiclav. The Metronidazole definitely worked better for me.

Wetweatherandmud · 18/12/2023 13:27

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 13:24

Why is everyone so convinced that my main concern was not drinking?! I didn’t even mention alcohol…

Because that's the reason why most people don't want to take it. I've had them thrown at me by patients because they have a wedding, it's Christmas etc. I've never had anyone refuse them because of the reasons you state.

Mrsjayy · 18/12/2023 13:28

AngeloMysterioso · 18/12/2023 13:15

Ok so I contacted the GP and explained my concerns (but did say I was willing to try it if there isn’t a suitable alternative), and she’s prescribed co-amoxiclav instead which I’ve had before with no issues, so all’s well that ends well.

I mean you could have just done that without getting riled at people on the Internet who didn't agree with you.

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