Friend has been miserable for the last 3 years, about how she hates her life in the UK, desperately wants to move away (which of course is fine) and she's going to Australia next year with a working visa. But she does not stop banging on about how shitty the UK is, how expensive it, everyone is shit, money is shit and overall just complaining nearly everyday which hets the group down.
She is under the assumption AUS will be 10x better because the pay is so good, yet she doesn't realise that the COL out there is 20% higher therefore wages are higher. She constantly states how she will be on 100k+ a year doing the same job and how life is better out there, considering shes never been there before and hearing her brag and brag does our groups head in.
Of course, we are pleases she's doing something to make her happy but it's been this way the past three years and she has got to the point where she doesn't even want to spend NY or any time with us because she's so miserable and spends all her time working to save for AUS, then complains she's bored and doesn't have anything to do, and this happens almost everyday.
She was meant to spend NY with a mutual friend who just went through a break up with an abusive man and she isn't even willing to spend NY wity her because she thinks it's a pointless exercise. That friend will now be spending it on her own. I cant even spend it with her as i'm away seeing family.
AIBU to find her excuses selfish