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To expect pubs to serve a decent vegetarian meal?

350 replies

Allshallbewell2021 · 15/12/2023 01:21

Three pub meals over the past three months have been dire or inedible. One risotto (rice not cooked) one bean/taco meal (clearly from a tin really grim), one Xmas dinner butternut squash thing (clearly from the freezer, slimy and disgusting).
And not cheap either.
Tonight I had chips, peas and battered halloumi (too much straight cheese for anyone) but quite nice.

Is a good vegetarian pub option not economically viable?

OP posts:
MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:26

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:05

There is a difference between taste and standards though.

I am all for restaurants offering a range of dishes - fake meat, whole foods - according to their chosen target demographic and what they want to supply. If you go to a burger joints fake meat is reasonable and you would be unreasonable to complain (although there are more traditional alternatives they could offer as well or instead - their choice).

But the OP is largely complaining about poor standards of meal - improperly cooked risotto, for example - which is unacceptable whether it’s a vegetarian, vegan or meat dish.

Some restaurants do seem to think that the vegetarian offering is an afterthought that doesn’t need to be of reasonable quality. Sure, vegetarians could avoid eating there on principle, but that gets awkward when your best mate organises their birthday party there and you either get berated for not going, or for trying to dictate where everyone eats. Or you suck it up, go along and support crap V options and the restaurant continues to think what they’re doing is fine 🙄

I totally get why vegetarians are annoyed by it, and all the fake meat vs whole foods, cheese vs vegan cheese, endless mushrooms, whatever complaints are a red herring, and just give people the opportunity to label vegetarians / vegans as fussy and difficult.

A lot of people on the thread were complaining about the actual menu options rather than the standard of food served.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 17/12/2023 11:38

What do I really like to eat? Pasta I guess (love pasta) but it’s not really ‘special’ is it - something you can make at home.

I love it but risotto is often gritty I find.

Wolvesart · 17/12/2023 11:38

Our friends joined us on hols some years ago. We were in a b and b. Daughter was vegetarian. The first night we went to an Italian. Several options of pasta dishes that seemed good. She was happy enough with this but vastly preferred the pub we went to the following night that specialised in giant Yorkshire puds. The vegetarian option was the then ubiquitous mushroom stroganoff (in a pud). Looked fairly unappealing, but she loved it

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:39

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:26

A lot of people on the thread were complaining about the actual menu options rather than the standard of food served.

I’m aware of that, but as I said, I think it’s not really the point of the OP. It’s unhelpful and I do object to the childish “I don’t like it so it shouldn’t be on the menu” attitude.

But if restaurants routinely offered a few of different vegetarian meals and at least one vegan meal, with a range of base ingredients, it would be less of an issue, as vegetarians wouldn’t be forced to choose the only option that they happen to dislike.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 17/12/2023 11:40

yorkshire Pudding - veggie of course - is bloody lovely!

Our Sunday lunches at home when I was a child were the whole shebang - and I’d have the yorkies, roast potatoes (veggie) and all the steamed veggies (I actually like cabbage and Brussel sprouts). yum.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 17/12/2023 11:41

Oh and the worst ‘meat’ I ever had was a few Christmases ago (must be about ten now) when we got a fake tofu turkey (with fake bacon strips on top) and it was absolutely inedible. Bleugh. I stick to veggie haggis now.

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:43

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:39

I’m aware of that, but as I said, I think it’s not really the point of the OP. It’s unhelpful and I do object to the childish “I don’t like it so it shouldn’t be on the menu” attitude.

But if restaurants routinely offered a few of different vegetarian meals and at least one vegan meal, with a range of base ingredients, it would be less of an issue, as vegetarians wouldn’t be forced to choose the only option that they happen to dislike.

I have never eaten anywhere that only has one vegetarian option.

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:47

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:43

I have never eaten anywhere that only has one vegetarian option.

Good for you. A number of the places round here only offer one option and no vegan. We are fairly rural, but there’s a still a reasonable vegetarian population. Not an issue for me, but trying to arrange a group meal can be a nightmare.

MadeOfAllWork · 17/12/2023 11:55

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:43

I have never eaten anywhere that only has one vegetarian option.

Really? I’ve eaten in loads. You must have been very lucky.

MadeOfAllWork · 17/12/2023 11:59

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 11:43

I have never eaten anywhere that only has one vegetarian option.

Here we go. Nice restaurant near me.
First place I looked to see what there was. One brunch option and one main course.

To expect pubs to serve a decent vegetarian meal?
MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 12:05

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:47

Good for you. A number of the places round here only offer one option and no vegan. We are fairly rural, but there’s a still a reasonable vegetarian population. Not an issue for me, but trying to arrange a group meal can be a nightmare.

I live in the north east but have moved around quite a bit in the region over the last couple of years. So I have lived in both cities and also fairly rurally.

Right now the village I am living in I would say is semi rural but even the Chinese takeaway in the village has a fully separate vegan menu.

I can honestly say that even as a vegan I have never struggled with eating out or getting takeaways even in semi rural north east. That’s why I am baffled when people say that they can never find anything or there is only one option. I am just thinking where do you live? Where are these weird places you are eating out at that the food is so crap?

MartyMcFlysPurpleUnderwear · 17/12/2023 12:07

Then again I have heard that a lot of ‘nice’ places are the worst so maybe that is what I am doing ‘wrong’. I don’t eat out in nice enough places 😂

BrownTableMat · 17/12/2023 12:10

I’d say it’s the exception not the rule that there’s more than two options on the menu that I can have as a vegetarian, and there’s often only one. I don’t eat in nice nice places, but neither are they complete dumps.

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 12:28

I’ve never seen a Chinese restaurant with a separate vegan menu round here. Although Chinese restaurants do tend to offer a few choices for vegetarians/ vegans. It’s usually the pubs and small restaurants that are very variable. Some are great, but many are really poor.

WillVioletsDad · 17/12/2023 12:29

Even back in the 1990s I can recall places that had more than one vegetarian option. But it was always zero vegan options, so I was stuffed. (I had more than one works Christmas meal where my meal was plain boiled white rice to which I added lots of salt and pepper).

eggandonion · 17/12/2023 13:37

We have a local noodle place that will substitute tofu for meat. So I suppose that's a vegan menu!

Jzp · 17/12/2023 14:55

Newuser75 · Today 08:12

@GrannyRose15 yes but the thing is is that the vegetarian food anywhere seems to be rubbish. With the exception of Indian/asian food.

This Exactly 👍

pookie999 · 17/12/2023 15:41

Mirrormeback · 15/12/2023 02:56

You choose the Pub / restaurant that serves the food you want

It's a bit urm entitled to expect the pub / restaurant you choose to go to to serve the food you want

You're the one choosing so just go somewhere else

They can cook and serve whatever they want it's their establishment

Really? Entitled to expect well cooked food that is on the menu and you pay for?

TheLocust · 17/12/2023 15:55

FourLeggedBuckers · 17/12/2023 11:47

Good for you. A number of the places round here only offer one option and no vegan. We are fairly rural, but there’s a still a reasonable vegetarian population. Not an issue for me, but trying to arrange a group meal can be a nightmare.

I live rurally as well. Most of the eateries around here have small menus. Typically 3-4 starters, one of which will be soup (which always seems to be vegetarian these days, can't remember the last time I saw chicken soup on a menu), another one will be vegan. Which often leaves max 1-2 starters which include meat or fish. I don't mind that too much as will happily eat veggie soup (though I can't abide carrot & coriander...who came up with that idea?).

Same thing with the mains, maybe 4-5 mains, usually two will be vegan which leaves the meat eaters with limited choice. Especially if they don't like fish.

I've often ordered vegetarian when I eat out but there's seems to be less and less to choose from now. The vegan options are rarely appetising.

threatmatrix · 17/12/2023 16:46

Omg, I love you 🤗

threatmatrix · 17/12/2023 16:48

Would I go into a vegatarian restaurant and ask what the meat option is? I’m in business to make money, I’m not buying in food especially for vegetarians in the hope that one might come in and if not throw that food away. You need to see it from a business perspective. Businesses open to make money.

threatmatrix · 17/12/2023 16:51

I run a business to make money and cater for the general public, like I’ve said in a past quote, I’m not buying in separate produce in the hope a veggie comes through my door and if they don’t I have to throw it out. You open your own business to make money. What are the meat options in a vegetarian restaurant?

MadeOfAllWork · 17/12/2023 17:22

threatmatrix · 17/12/2023 16:51

I run a business to make money and cater for the general public, like I’ve said in a past quote, I’m not buying in separate produce in the hope a veggie comes through my door and if they don’t I have to throw it out. You open your own business to make money. What are the meat options in a vegetarian restaurant?

Yes, because asking for a meat option in a vegetarian restaurant is exactly the same thing and a frequent and lazy argument.

NoSquirrels · 17/12/2023 21:55

MadeOfAllWork · 17/12/2023 11:59

Here we go. Nice restaurant near me.
First place I looked to see what there was. One brunch option and one main course.

What’s the objection to this menu?

Starters - vegetarians can eat 2 options, vegans 1 option, pescatarians/omnivores all 3. No meat.

Mains - vegetarians 1 option, pescatarians 2 options, omnivores all 3. Out of luck if you’re vegan but I assume they’d drop the goat cheese for you.

Desserts, similar.

It looks pretty balanced for a small menu to me. Admittedly brunch is meat-heavy and they could stand for an extra vegetarian option there but I dunno, it’s not terrible, is it?

If you eat a restricted diet, your choices are restricted.

threatmatrix · 17/12/2023 23:47

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