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to laugh hard at karma biting ex?

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YetMoreNewBeginnings · 12/12/2023 15:35

Admittedly this is as much of a “I need to laugh somewhere” post as a AiBU

My ex is a dick. He has 7 children by 3 women and has no contact with any of them. My girls are the eldest and I’ve had over twenty years of his shite.

He tells his new girlfriends I tricked him into pregnancy… we had fertility treatment that he paid for! I also had to speak to his senior officers before he would pay a penny of maintenance. That’s the kind of level we’re dealing with.

He split up with his wife about 4 years ago and they are in the middle of an acrimonious divorce.

He cheated on a relatively new girlfriend. She has sent both his ex wife and ex girlfriend (he has children with both) details of his new job and considerable payrise that he hadn’t told them about. She also sent the ex wife paperwork for a shitload of hidden savings.

He’s had confirmation this morning that his CMS payments will almost double.

his social media rantings are actually hilarious 😂

His Mum always told him he wouldn’t get away with treating people badly his whole adult life.

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Noshowlomo · 12/12/2023 18:38

Ah love a story like this

SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 12/12/2023 18:38

I'm loving the GF. She sounds like a great Woman.

isthismylifenow · 12/12/2023 18:38

I like that ex. Good for her.

Sometimes it takes a long time, but that circle never stops turning.

Ju1ieAndrews · 12/12/2023 18:51

I hope his increased CMS payments are backdated; men paying less than the bare minimum for their children are scum, I wish more was done about it.

Fannyfiggs · 12/12/2023 19:30

Could one of his exes now call him and tell him he has herpes. That would just be the STD on the cake 😁

The ex girlfriend should be up for woman of the year award!

DuckyShincracker · 12/12/2023 19:34

Nice one! Here's hoping karma pays my ex a visit!

Americano75 · 12/12/2023 19:35

Is he a copper?

youhavenoidea123 · 12/12/2023 19:36

But if the GF was not an Ex she would not be sharing this information. She was clearly happy to deceive the ex wife while it benefitted her. Not sure she is to be congratulated.

Santaiswashinghissleigh · 12/12/2023 19:37

My exh refused to let me take any photos of the dc when I dared to leave him. He hid them in his car.
Car went into the garage..
And was written off after an electrical fire.. In time dc came to me full time. And brought a load of photos he still had!

Whattodo112222 · 12/12/2023 19:53

You would be absolutely unreasonable if you didn't celebrate this

nopenotplaying · 12/12/2023 20:00

I thought you could back date claims in this type of situation. Money you've spent that should have been provided by him?

Nowherenew · 12/12/2023 20:04

I love karma!!

I had a colleague who got into a relationship with a man who was ‘tricked’ into having 7 kids by 7 different women.

My colleague became the 8th and her baby was born a couple months after the 7th was.

He was only 25 and had 1 or 2 babies each year.
This was almost 10 years ago now so I dread to think how many he has now.

He’s obviously an idiot but the women need to take some responsibility too, especially the 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th and 8th!

socialdilemmawhattodo · 12/12/2023 20:04

Celebrate away! Whatever her reasons, new g/f has done some of his DC a favour and given all the mums a laugh at karma. Sorry it's not you OP!

I also recently had a good laugh at my ex - who spent more on lawyers dealing with our divorce than just paying maintenance would have cost. But anyway. DC comes home - a little bit off. We chat politely for a while then they blurt out - please don't show me your photo library mum. I was about to show them pictures of the DCats in (no)action. Why? I ask. Surprised. Apparently they had a nasty shock at their dad's. Apparently a very dodgy picture or two, on the photo feed. What DC don't know is that their dad's addiction to porn was a major reason I was never that keen to repair our marriage. Anyway we giggled about that on and off all weekend. I havent seen the images - I dont need to. But I did suggest the mumsnet classic of brain bleach!

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 12/12/2023 20:35

youhavenoidea123 · 12/12/2023 19:36

But if the GF was not an Ex she would not be sharing this information. She was clearly happy to deceive the ex wife while it benefitted her. Not sure she is to be congratulated.

She was only with him for less than 6 months and finding out some truths is why she ended it. So I think she is an alright sort

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