I’m 20 weeks pregnant and am due to move into a new role and team within my organisation in a week.
I work in an office, but at a different location from managers and colleagues I work with day to day so have managed to hide my pregnancy so far.
I need to tell my employer that I’m pregnant by mid-January in order to get my legal entitlement to maternity leave.
I’m worried that if I say that I’m pregnant on my first day in the new team next week then I will make a bad first impression and won’t be allocated the most challenging and high profile work opportunities (it’s a male dominated team).
But I’m also worried that if I don’t say anything then I will be allocated work that I can’t complete e.g. it might involve travel in late pregnancy. And when I tell them in mid January then my new managers might be annoyed that I’ve left it late for them to plan ahead and arrange cover.
AIBU if I wait to tell them until mid January?
YABU - You should tell them next week.
YANBU - Wait as long as possible to tell them.