This is the first christmas since my mum died earlier in the year.
I’ve scaled things right back concerning christmas this year which my adult children understand although I’m not ignoring it totally.
Went out christmas shopping with my husband this morning. It was hard but I did alright until the last shop we visited.
Walked into The Range only to see directly in front of me an electronic advertising sign that had an advertisement saying Mother’s Day Sunday 27th March. There was no way not to see it.
Christmas is difficult enough this year without being reminded of Mothering Sunday.
My plan has always been get through christmas, have january to recover before ‘preparing’ myself for the first Mothering Sunday without my mum.
Managed to make it round the shop ok but broke down when we got back to the car.
Surely I’m not being unreasonable that it’s a hard enough time of year for those of us who’ve lost our mum’s without having the double whammy of Mothering Sunday being thrown in over 3 months before the actual date.