I'm absolutely raging, dp has a habit of blindly throwing stuff out (( hoards shit like random, ancient trainers that are more hole than trainer tho ))
He's got previous for this going back as far as I can remember. I once intercepted a bag fullnof the kids baby photos and brand new packs of socks that he'd swept up in a pile.
And here we are again. Last week I ordered some tat from temu, dp was decorating whilst I took ds out. He cleared the room and the obvious thing in the big box he put up stairs but the less obvious bag containing an I love nutella spoon for my sons stocking and a Christmas tree star that looks like the Mario star has now gone. (( wasnt expecting much but its surprisingly good )) And I just know he's pissing binned it, because that's what he pissing does.
Was it my fault for leaving it downstairs?? Yes, yes it was but ffs, to add insult to injury he was sat playing snooking on his PlayStation. Well I say was, he crapped himself and shot off to look for it after I'd let rip.......grrr.
And no. I don't think its weaponised incompetence, he just fucking bumbles clumsily through life. Its like living with the bloke on some mothers do Ave em. 😑😤😤😤