large group of friends/couples, we all get on and regularly do things as a group and smaller groups.
recently went out for food and drinks with a few of the couples. Really lovely place and plans to do a bar crawl after food. When we got to the meal I started to feel poorly a couple of drinks in, went off to the loo and friend in question was chatting to DH. I was chatting with another couple at the time but noticed she was doing a lot of touching and leaning on him laughing etc. It drew my attention over as their conversation was also just between them. I felt a bit out of sorts but put it down to the fact that I was feeling sick. Friend above follows me to the loo and asks me if I’m ok, I tell her no I’m actually feeling sick and planning to ask DH if we can go home after we’ve finished the meals as I don’t think I’m going to be well enough for the bar crawl. She gives me a cuddle and says no worries that she understands and we will catch up soon. I head back to the table after the loos and she’s back over chatting to hubby and doing lots of giggling/touching. It looks like he’s trying to include others in the conversation but she turns her body as if to the block the rest of the group out. They are sat in the corner of the booth, blocked in, so I can’t physically go around to get his attention. Keep popping my head up to catch his eye and give him the nod to ask if we can call it a night. He hasn’t noticed me and is none the wiser and I just get the feeling that friend is desperately trying to keep his attention so that he doesn’t notice I want to leave. Eventually when he looks up he notices im not well and I tell him I’m ready to go and of course he leaves. We say our goodbyes. Friend was a little drunk so I put it down to that. I explain the situation in the taxi home to DH and he said he didn’t notice how touchy feely she was and sorry I felt a bit out of sorts.
anyway we have a planned event that we see them at the very next weekend. Friend is sober but this time she’s bought DH some ‘special’ brownies that’s she’s baked as he told the group that he’s never tried them. She encourages him to eat them there and I suggest it’s not a good idea incase he can’t drive home. Hope what I’m saying makes sense. He refuses but she’s very insistent again blocking off me by turning her back and giggling on DH’s shoulder. He breaks away and we chat in the corner and he tells me he can see that she’s suddenly got quite friendly! She paid zero attention to me and when I said hey and asked how is her daughter when we first went over she pretended not to hear me and then said oh gosh sorry I zoned out what were you saying? It’s obvious she heard me she was right next to me.
am I right to be feeling odd about her behaviour?