for a bit of a back story me and my ex id say more of a situationship, we’re speaking on and off for three years on social media ( every few months) after he approached me for my contact details when I was out. For the past year of that, me and him grew a lot closed and ended up meeting a few times and got to the point where he was telling me that he loves me and sees a future with me (which we was planning). It was very toxic however and he was very very controlling. Whenever he doesn’t like something or I would refuse to do something he wanted I would be blocked and not spoken too. I ended up finding out the whole time me and him had been getting closer and making a bond he had infact had multiple other girls on the go.
This ended up in me confronting him and him blocking me on every single social media platform. I was very hurt and upset by all of this because our plans had crumbled. Two months into being blocked he messaged me when aboard saying that we should meet up, I told him no and again I was blocked. Five or six months later had came and my previous ex (before the situationship) messaged me telling me that my situationship was messaging him telling him not to stress over me and that I am nothing but a liar and he would never ever speak to me again. This was completely random to me as they are not even friends so it’s strange why they are even in contact over me and the only topic of conversation was infact me.
I ended up making a new Snapchat account to message my ex situationship on. I sent him a message asking him why he is speaking bad on my name and how I am a liar?. He didn’t end up responding to me and actually sent a screenshot to my ex partner of me sending him a friend request. I ended up logging out and back into my Snapchat and then a few days passed. I had seen his user name on my original Snapchat meaning I was no infact unblocked and I logged into the new account I made and he had accepted the request. He was saying things such as a I’m a liar ect but not explaining why, he started sending me Snapchats of him self so I sent him one back and we spoke for about ten minutes. I was on the way to a hair appointment ( I usually wear lace frontal wigs) he was telling me that he loves me with my natural hair out which is something he would always say to me.
We was basically speaking and seeing how each other had been, I ask him if me and him would ever happen again he said all he wants is loyalty and honesty. I told him that I missed him and that I was sorry and I am sorry for hurting him he opened my message left me on read for half an hour after this and then he blocked me. I was left so confused because we was talking it seemed okay and then he just blocked me again. I was still unblocked on my main Snapchat but he clearly didn’t want to speak to me so I am not going to add him.
Three days or so later he ended up adding the new Snapchat account that I made ( I don’t use the account so I didn’t see the request. I messaged him asking if he was okay, and he deleted me once again. After we stopped contact originally he deleted/ made his social media accounts private. Since we spoke he’s now made his accounts un private. I had a look on his instagram and he is following out of over 100 people 1 account that is like an account showing naked woman with bums and boobs out. I don’t know if I’m reaching but all the woman are black ( I am black, which obviously isn’t unusual but we live in a very very small town and I think I am one of the only black people especially girls in it). He follows no other females all males apart from this one account.