My daughter plays with different friends as kids do. She’s 10. She has friends from school she plays with and a neighbour who goes to a different school who’s 11 almost 12. My dd arranges with her friends from school to go to their house to play. Her other friend,the neighbour, wants to go too but the mum doesn’t like loads of kids in her house and they kind of all don’t get on anyway but the neighbour always wants to go. She goes home crying (according to her mum) that’s she’s not allowed to go and her mum messages me telling me to tell my daughter to play with her too and it’s not fair she can’t go. AIBU about this as it’s not my house and if they don’t want to play with her I would never force them to? My daughter plays with this girl all the time more than her friends from school so it’s not like they never see each other. AIBU to be getting really annoyed with the girls mum? I don’t text her if her daughter is out with friends from school demanding my daughter go too. They’re old enough to sort these things themselves imo and my daughters friends from school don’t really know her and don’t want her playing in their house 🤷♀️ but then I always have the other mum texting every time saying her daughter should be able to go too.