Me and my partner of 4 years seem to going through a really rough patch at the minute, we are constantly arguing and I hate it.
we moved in together at the beginning of the year and it was fine at first but recently we just can’t seem to get on.
I feel like I can’t make any comment or show any signs that I am unhappy about something without him reacting and then it ensues in a full blown argument where we are telling eachother to go and find someone else, I generally get called a crank and then we don’t speak and end up speaking a few days later and the argument is not spoken about, we are nice to eachother for a days and then the next argument happens and the cycle continues.
i’m so tired of it and getting the point where i just don’t want to live like this anymore and i want to leave but then we make up and i carry on until the next time.
i just don’t know what to do, i feel unhappy most of the time. I feel like he just dismisses me and any issues i have and just goes straight for an argument instead of talking. It gets us nowhere and I just feel fed up. Should I be trying harder or should I just accept we aren’t compatible?