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Paying a cleaner a retainer

7 replies

Quiettiger · 29/11/2023 14:36

We are moving house in the next 3 weeks and we will be employing a new cleaner. She's very sought after - she's highly recommended and known locally for doing a good job and being very reliable. I have had to delay her starting with us by 2 weeks because of the delay in moving and have therefore have happily agreed to pay for the 2 weeks she's not cleaning for us so that we can reserve our "weekly cleaning spot" going forward.

I told a friend that we'd effectively paid for 2 weeks that she wouldn't be cleaning, so that we could keep our cleaning day and friend has basically said cleaner is being a CF. I am now second guessing myself, I was (and am still) happy to pay for 2 weeks non-cleaning so new cleaner isn't messed about based on what we originally agreed. (I had originally asked her to start this week).

What are people's thoughts?

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biedrona · 29/11/2023 14:38

In this case, since the delay was cause by you, you should be paying her

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/11/2023 14:38

I really don’t know why “friends” have to weigh in in this situation. You were happy, cleaner was happy. What does she achieve by making you feel bad about a perfectly sensible arrangement?

LittleMrsPretty · 29/11/2023 14:39

I think if you can afford it and are happy yo do this your cleaner will really appreciate it right before xmas

Fynoderee · 29/11/2023 14:40

I think it’s none of your friends business.

I have a cleaning business and it’s quite frustrating to be turning away work and then a regular client suddenly cancels for a holiday or something that’s been planned for a while and suddenly It’s all to short notice for me to fill the slot so I don’t earn.

If your cleaner is sought after, she probably has a waiting list and could have allocated your slot to someone else. I think you’ve been fair to pay this

DaisyDoor · 29/11/2023 14:43

I always pay my cleaner for weeks she doesn’t work at our request. Totally normal- it’s her income.

Cosyblankets · 29/11/2023 14:44

If you want to keep the space then you pay.
Otherwise cleaner would be turning down work.
It's business

Quiettiger · 29/11/2023 14:45

Thanks all, that goes with what I felt. Friend can get stuffed with her opinion!

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