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To think 2 is not enough?

158 replies

RunningonCaffeine · 29/11/2023 10:57

Our two kids (6 and 8) are having a Nintendo switch (to share) for Christmas. It’s their main present but they are having other things as well. DH and I have different views about how many games we should buy to go with the switch. DH thinks two is plenty but I want to get them more! I would have probably gone for at least 4 or 5 on the basis that it’s Christmas and they’ll probably be playing it quite a bit over the holidays. DH thinks 2 is plenty for now and they can build up more over time. I’m worried it won’t be as exciting if they only have a couple of games and get bored of them quickly.

I should say this is representative of our general views towards Christmas presents. DH is a little more on the sensible (miserly?) side and I am a little more generous (frivolous?!) The money itself isn’t an issue but DH never wants to go wild at Christmas and I don’t know whether he’s being too much of a Scrooge or whether I have the tendency to perhaps go a little over the top, maybe it’s a little of both.

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Luckylu123 · 30/11/2023 20:16

I think two is plenty to start with, then once they’ve got the hang of it they might have a better idea on the type of games they like, so you can get them down the line

jannier · 30/11/2023 20:19

2s fine

Isitthathardtobekind · 30/11/2023 21:07

Gosh. A 6 and 8 year old needing a switch each? Mine are older and share 1. The reason I chose a switch a few Christmas’s ago, is so that they play together on the tv and interact with each other rather than sit staring at interactive devices. They had 2 games in total to start with. They were older and these were plenty!
** this was in response to someone here saying to buy 1 switch each.

Luckyduc · 30/11/2023 21:08

Why do you consult your husband? Go buy what you want for them....they are your kids. My husband finds out on Christmas day what our kid gets.

Isitthathardtobekind · 30/11/2023 21:09

Luckyduc · 30/11/2023 21:08

Why do you consult your husband? Go buy what you want for them....they are your kids. My husband finds out on Christmas day what our kid gets.

Many people have joint accounts so it’s fair that he has a say in how much is spent and also how much he feels they ‘need’/get. He is their parent too.

Isitthathardtobekind · 30/11/2023 21:12

Digestivechocolate · 30/11/2023 14:32

Be prepared for fights over a shared switch is all I'm saying.
Where l live we have exchange shops for all kind of games .. plus able to buy second hand. Even places like cash converter.

Can’t they play together with a controller each? That’s the reason why I got a switch- so they could play together and interact as they play

Isitthathardtobekind · 30/11/2023 21:14

ThePineapplePrincess · 29/11/2023 12:04

They are not going to be more inclined to play together because they have one console.

I disagree. I bought one to encourage shared game play and that’s what they do! I prefer them to play together than sit staring alone at separate screens

PurpleBugz · 30/11/2023 21:23

If you buy second hand you can get more than 2 for the price of 2

ThisIsntThe80sPat · 30/11/2023 22:05

In your situation, I'd compromise and get 3.

FloorIt · 30/11/2023 22:45

Once the switch is set up, you can purchase digital copies online which are cheaper and theres a big sale on at the moment

wonkymonkey · 30/11/2023 22:55

Two is plenty. And we’re a family who likes games! Especially the adventure style games where you’re following an adventure to the end. Mario Kart is great and takes up to four players (get two extra controllers, the steering wheels were rubbish in our experience) and Luigi’s Mansion is the best two player game we’ve seen. Animal Crossing will keep them occupied for hours. So one “long” one which you invest time in and one that you dip in and out of like Mario Kart would be a good balance. Animal Crossing and Mario Kart are good starter games if they don’t have gaming experience. Luigi’s Mansion might be the next one for a birthday!

wonkymonkey · 30/11/2023 22:56

And I’m the one who goes overboard on Xmas presents! Two is definitely good.

Toohardtofindaproperusername · 30/11/2023 23:20

2 is fine. A switch is a huge cost. But,maybe that is also missing from your OP. Is it a huge cost to you? What's your income, outgoings etc. But all things equal, they are really young and 2 games is not only enough, but as other people said, allows dice fpr other things to be important or valued.

Platformboots · 30/11/2023 23:22

Poster says money isn't an issue so get them a switch each with 2 or 3 games.

CreeperBoom · 30/11/2023 23:40

Where are people getting cheap second hand games? CEX is often as expensive as new at Amazon, once you include postage.

I think you want -

  1. an open ended creative sandbox game that works in 2-player, e.g. minecraft
  2. a good competitive 4-player, e.g. mario kart or party
  3. a 2 player platform game

We have one switch as a family console, and DC play together if they want to play at the same time. It works fine.

Josette77 · 01/12/2023 04:51

Mario cart and Minecraft.

Mario party is fun but long as gets repetitive.
Minecraft is more creative and tons of ways to play. I really recommend it.

Gem2345 · 01/12/2023 06:19

My children were about the same age as yours when they got their Nintendos, at this point 5 years on they have most of the games in their age range. However they play only a handful of them. The games we love as a family are monopoly and Mario kart, the games they love are Minecraft (has been played more than anything else) and animal crossing, Lego worlds is fab too a bit like Minecraft as in it’s a building game. I would say 2 each would be my go to, something for them and something for you all to play together. If you join Nintendo online there’s free games on there too. Make it a family thing and may DH will loosen up a tad but there’s no need to go mad, games are brilliant go to gifts over the years.

Justanothermum42 · 01/12/2023 06:59

I think it’s you… two games is plenty. Do you know what games they like? See how they get on with those two and if needed, take a shopping trip to get another one. Giving them 4-5 is over the top indulgence. You will end up regretting giving them so much when they are a bit older. But I totally get where you are coming from.

Ihateusernames91 · 01/12/2023 08:56

As someone with a switch i would recommend going on the Nintendo eshop once the switch is setup. They often have deals on games.
You could also get them a voucher and taken them to boxing day sales so they can pick a game of their choice each.

TwoShades1 · 01/12/2023 09:15

I would start with 2. More so they can have a say in choosing further games, maybe for birthday presents. Depending on the game there is a fair amount of gameplay in them and it will take them a while to work through unless they are already experienced at gaming.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 01/12/2023 12:48

2PintsOfCidernaBagofCrisps · 29/11/2023 12:16

As someone who grew up in a family where we were regularly made to share due to tight finances, it's really not down to being ungrateful and more to do with it just being nice to have things that are actually yours.

"Merry Christmas! You can play with this another time once James has had his turn". Fun 🙄

With respect, this isn't like that at all. It's like buying Monopoly for them to play together - sure they might not, but it's designed to be played together.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 01/12/2023 12:53

@RunningonCaffeine

I'd get two or three I think, plus the online subscription which is only about £30.

  • Yoshi's Crafted World is lovely, fun for all the family and the littler one will love it
  • Mario Kart always a mainstay for multiple players - warning though - you WILL have tears as they are competing rather than playing co-op! It is a good way to encourage fair play and sportsmanship
  • Minecraft will last them for years and years, so get this as well if you can.

Just realised this is basically what @CreeperBoom has recommended - a platformer, a sandbox, and a multiplayer.

Don't bother with the sports games as IME they're quite hard for the littler kids to manage. Not sure about Just Dance.

@Catza you do know that some parents will exercise their powers of No and not let their children spend every spare minute gaming? It's even possible to do that on Christmas day!

Catza · 01/12/2023 13:18

@ChiefWiggumsBoy I am commenting on OP's own sentence, so not generalising to the population at large.

HamstersAreMyLife · 01/12/2023 13:21

We went for 2 and then 6m later they had a game each for birthdays then a game each the next Christmas. 6 has been plenty and we've had our switch years. We are getting Nintendo online this Christmas now they're a bit older.

Beexxxx · 01/12/2023 14:34

i think a few more games would be good so they can get the most out of it? But you can find some good deals second hand!