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To think that you can’t just close a road like this!

376 replies

RoadClosed · 26/11/2023 11:04

Came home from work a few weeks ago (2:30pm) and our road had “road closed” signs on it. Highly unusual as it’s a quiet one way street with a couple of cul-de-sacs leading off it. I parked up and walked the rest of the way home (only 2 minutes, it’s not a long road). When DH came home he said the road wasn’t closed - no signs of it ever being closed.

A few days later same thing, 2:30pm - road closed. No signs of work going on, so I moved the sign and drove to my house. A neighbour text me same day asking why the road is closed as there is no work going on. I said I had no idea so he rang council to ask - they had no idea either and said nobody had applied to close the road either. Therefore we all just moved these signs off the road whenever we saw them and drove past.

Long story short - a woman down the street then went knocking on doors asking people not to move the signs as they were put there during the day to make the street safe for kids to play on!! By kids she means her son. It was explained to her that she can’t just close the road for this reason! Her reasoning is that it’s a short street and it’s only a short walk from the signs to any of the houses on the street. She was told that this isn’t the point, people have a right to be able to drive to their driveways! She’s continuing to put the signs up between 10am and 3pm. AWBU to continue ignoring them??

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Imagwine · 26/11/2023 11:58

He’s going to grow up a real entitled little prince isn’t he. Poor sod.

Familyiness · 26/11/2023 11:58

Am I crazy but a 3 year old shouldn't be out in the street alone anyhow?
Mine all played in backyard when they were that age, only time they went front was if I was cutting the lawn.
And I'm sure what she is doing is illegal

WickedSerious · 26/11/2023 11:58

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 11:09

I understand her concern. She should talk to the neighbours and council about an agreed closure time on weekend days. We've just expected kids to adapt to cars, and not the other way around.

Do what now????

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 12:00

Biker47 · 26/11/2023 11:27

Are you for real?? 😆

Yes. It's really strange how mums here don't recognise the risk that cars present to children, and frankly to all of us given we're nearly at 2 degrees of global warming. And the pearl clutching with which a modest restraint is proposed!

Mrsjayy · 26/11/2023 12:01

that's mental! no of course she can't close the road.

Devilsmommy · 26/11/2023 12:02

I'd be chucking them in her garden every single time. Batshit woman🙄

WrongSwanson · 26/11/2023 12:02

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 12:00

Yes. It's really strange how mums here don't recognise the risk that cars present to children, and frankly to all of us given we're nearly at 2 degrees of global warming. And the pearl clutching with which a modest restraint is proposed!

Yes it really highlights our absolute dependence on /worship of the car. It's quite depressing reading.

Bromptotoo · 26/11/2023 12:02

We really should return to the concept of 'Play Streets' but no YANBU.

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 12:02

SiliconHeaven · 26/11/2023 11:33

Also a local authority officer, in highways. Not a new one for me, I had similar a couple of weeks ago.
Batshit. Also illegal, the highways officer will put her straight 😁

It's a shame you refer to the public as batshit. If you are indeed working in local government may I refer you to some of the regulations that councils can use to make streets safer for children.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 26/11/2023 12:03

It's stupid.

But also even if there's a road closed sign you can usually still drive to your house if it's on your road.

LadyLapsang · 26/11/2023 12:03

Tell her to take them down otherwise you will report to the Police, LA etc. Ambulances and emergency services, delivery drivers need access.

ActDottie · 26/11/2023 12:05

If she’s not listening to you and other neighbours I’d report her to the council to see if she finally gets the message

TheresaCrowd · 26/11/2023 12:06

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 12:00

Yes. It's really strange how mums here don't recognise the risk that cars present to children, and frankly to all of us given we're nearly at 2 degrees of global warming. And the pearl clutching with which a modest restraint is proposed!

Yeah, keep your 3 year old out of the road.

SpringingJoy · 26/11/2023 12:07

Don't keep moving them, chuck them in your boot.

Hadjab · 26/11/2023 12:09

GrumpyPanda · 26/11/2023 11:31

So she speaks English badly, but doesn't send her son to nursery? Poor kid, being set up for a lifetime of underachievement.

Utter bollocks

Fingeronthebutton · 26/11/2023 12:11

I’m more puzzled at your AWBU. Did you really need to ask 🤦🏼‍♀️

NewPinkJacket · 26/11/2023 12:13

Fingeronthebutton · 26/11/2023 12:11

I’m more puzzled at your AWBU. Did you really need to ask 🤦🏼‍♀️

I'm puzzled as to why the OP won't say why the council or police have done nothing about it?

Northernersther · 26/11/2023 12:14

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 11:09

I understand her concern. She should talk to the neighbours and council about an agreed closure time on weekend days. We've just expected kids to adapt to cars, and not the other way around.

If she had those concerns she needs to move to a private road where she can make her own rules. Her needs do not override every one else’s needs. She is not a very special snowflake.

waitingforittogetbetter · 26/11/2023 12:15

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2023 11:09

I understand her concern. She should talk to the neighbours and council about an agreed closure time on weekend days. We've just expected kids to adapt to cars, and not the other way around.

Because people need cars and other vehicles, children don't need to play in the road.

ColleenDonaghy · 26/11/2023 12:16

Every time I think I'm done with this place, along comes another deliciously batshit thread and I'm hooked again Grin

Definitely report and keep moving the signs in the meantime.

FloofCloud · 26/11/2023 12:17

So she stops the traffic so she can let her kid out alone - great parenting, and also great entitled CFery!

SlightlyJaded · 26/11/2023 12:17

That is batshit, cheeky fuckery of the highest order. It's not Kensington Fucking Palace - her child doesn't get to ride around on his 'land'

Of course YANBU. If she genuinely persists, you will have to report.

SusanKennedyshouldLTB · 26/11/2023 12:17

ColleenDonaghy · 26/11/2023 12:16

Every time I think I'm done with this place, along comes another deliciously batshit thread and I'm hooked again Grin

Definitely report and keep moving the signs in the meantime.

Yes this

waitingforittogetbetter · 26/11/2023 12:18

ColleenDonaghy · 26/11/2023 12:16

Every time I think I'm done with this place, along comes another deliciously batshit thread and I'm hooked again Grin

Definitely report and keep moving the signs in the meantime.

Agreed

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 26/11/2023 12:18

Wondered how long it would be before someone came along demonising drivers 🙄