To take this woman up on her offer?

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I have been seeing this women from tinder for about 6 weeks. She has been incredibly flakey and hard to pin down and because of that we have only had 3 dates and she has cancelled 3. On Monday I received a message from her apologising and saying she was not ready for a relationship but was really 'craving' me and basically still wanted to have sex.

She has invited me to her house next weekend for and I quote 'casual sex'. I mean it would be lovely but I've never came across a situation like this before, it almost feels dodgy.

Does it sound strange? Would I be awful to do as she asks?

I guess if she's willing and you're able, no harm should come of it.

You've never come across people wanting casual sex before?

Do you want to have casual sex? If yes, then go. If not, then don’t go.

Wear a condom.

Do whatever you want , but yes definitely wear a condom, even if she says she is on the pill. If u are looking for a relationship, would this muddy the waters for you?

Hey - whatever your gender, I’d say it doesn’t sound ‘dodgy’ but I’d say really think about what you want to and what ur own boundaries are, and also maybe keep in mind what works for you - eg if it all feels uncomfortable there or the vibe is off, you’ve always got the option to leave in the moment, or not continue this. And don’t get sucked into thinking that this might be the gateway to a relationship. Hope that doesn’t sound obvious - you just sound like you haven’t navigated many situations like this and could end up kind of vulnerable (to being hurt).

If you both want casual sex, then have casual sex. Sounds great.

But if you really want a relationship, and are likely to find it hurtful, then don’t.