So a couple of months ago, i met a guy online and have dated quite a few times. At first, I was put off by his monologue but put it down to nerves. As the dates went on the conversation got better. His chat can bore me a bit but I do like him. I have been single for 15 years more or less, and this is the first decent man I’ve come across that is kind, genuine, intelligent, caring, gentlemanly, has his shit together, we share the same values and we have a good few things in common. The problem is there is no chemistry. I was hoping there would be after all our dates but I’m just not feeling it. He has tried on a few occasions to kiss me but I can’t reciprocate. He thinks this is because my wall is up due to past relationships which is true to an extent but i think i just don’t fancy him as much as i would like to. I am giving him the disappointing news tonight and really hoping he’ll want to remain friends but understand if he doesn’t. Am I doing the right thing? Will I ever find love? I’m starting to think I’ll be forever single ☹️