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To think I should ask for a promotion?

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donniedarko89 · 23/11/2023 15:15

I have been working at my organisation for 1.5 years. I came from a different industry and despite an initial learning curve, I have had good results, closing some pretty big deals recently. I am thinking about asking for a promotion (from "Manager" to "Senior Manager"). Some of the things I find unfair at the moment:

  • The other guy who is a Senior Manager hasn't achieved comparable results, yet he is paid more than me;
  • I have actual managerial responsibilities in the form of direct reports, he doesn't
  • I work more hours, including out-of-hours occasionally
I can't help feeling slightly jaded. Because of his more important title, he often acts condescending and patronising towards me, and this behaviour has increased recently (perhaps he feels threatened?). I wonder whether a promotion might not only serve me financially, but also help address this power dynamic. WWYD?
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ScattieHattie1 · 23/11/2023 15:34

100% ask, it's such a clear case of absolutely.

Whataretheodds · 23/11/2023 15:36

Definitely. Are you clear on what you should be asking for in terms of pay? And how to negotiate it? There are some great videos on Instagram.

Superscientist · 23/11/2023 15:40

Try to find out the job criteria for the band that senior manager has to meet.
Then spend a few weeks compiling a list of examples that shows you are working at that level.

My line manager suggested it but this is what I had to do in order to go from regular BLAH to senior BLAH. (They really should give us better titles 😉)
When the application went it I had to write a small paragraph listing the different ways I was working at the pay grade and how I was working towards the examples even if I wasn't quite there yet.
It took me about 4 months as my line manager found me the opportunity to manage a student on placement with us and this was the major hole in my skills set.

Don't ask for a pay rise ..... Demonstrate why it is deserved!

donniedarko89 · 23/11/2023 15:42

@Whataretheodds I am already at the top of my pay scale, so as long as I move to the next one, that would be a good result. It does seem like a clear case but my company is not doing so well this year and they might be conservative with promotions. Perhaps I also tend to come across as less confident, which might put me in a worse position - although in the end I achieve better results through hard work.

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BarbaraofSeville · 23/11/2023 15:56

From what you've said, you've got a good case for asking to be regraded to senior manager and if they don't give it to you, assuming you are a woman, talk to your union or ACAS about bringing a case of sex discrimination.

What justifies his position as senior manager when he doesn't have any direct reports? Are there any other differences like clients with more complex needs?

Whataretheodds · 23/11/2023 16:08

I am already at the top of my pay scale, so as long as I move to the next one, that would be a good result

I think you're underselling yourself. If he is a Senior Manager for a while he won't be on the bottom of the scale. Don't you want at least the same as him?

As PP said they're risking a sex discrimination suit given if you are doing the same job (but you're doing addition responsibilites) and you're a consistently better performer than him but not promoted.

Horriblewoman · 23/11/2023 16:11

None of those reasons to me speak to why you are worthy of promotion and instead sounds like you have a grudge against him.

I would get the role profile of a senior manager and put forward evidence against each one of those that demonstrates you’re working at that level.

is there an annual promotion cycle? Do you have a manager that you speak to about your profession regularly?

donniedarko89 · 23/11/2023 16:48

Horriblewoman · 23/11/2023 16:11

None of those reasons to me speak to why you are worthy of promotion and instead sounds like you have a grudge against him.

I would get the role profile of a senior manager and put forward evidence against each one of those that demonstrates you’re working at that level.

is there an annual promotion cycle? Do you have a manager that you speak to about your profession regularly?

There is an annual promotion cycle at the end of the summer. However I was always advised to start talking about promotions after achieving particularly good results, so I wonder if I should begin this conversation now.

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