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Biggest regret light-hearted

107 replies

Bumface56 · 22/11/2023 18:04

Mine is never being able to afford a Concorde flight to New York.
What's yours?

OP posts:
Tittyfilarious81 · 22/11/2023 18:08

Not learning to drive when I started working, I absolutely dont have the confidence now but back when I was 18 I would have had the confidence to try .

PestilencialCrisis · 22/11/2023 18:12

Renting throughout my twenties instead of buying a house when they were about £65k

Bumface56 · 22/11/2023 18:14

Another one of mine is refusing to continue with piano lessons

OP posts:
Portach · 22/11/2023 18:16

Not sleeping with more Frenchmen.

BadBadDecisions · 22/11/2023 18:18

Not kissing the guy back when we were stood in the bus shelter

dontforgettithespaghetti · 22/11/2023 18:29

Saying no to DS when he asked for a McDonald's after parents evening. I'm now exhausted cooking dinner and I don't fancy it at all. What I really fancy is a quarter pounder with cheese 🤣

Hayliebells · 22/11/2023 18:34

Not continuing with a language (French) at A Level. Doing a PhD, it was a complete waste of time. When I should have been getting ahead in a career before having kids, instead I was farting about researching something no one (not even me) cared about, and which had no benefit to me career wise at all.

OneRingToRuleThemAll · 22/11/2023 18:42

Buying a flat and not a house in 2008. They said it would be a starter home and we could move in a few years. It only took those few years for flats to stagnate in price and houses to rocket.

MissAmbrosia · 22/11/2023 18:46

Selling my UK house when we moved abroad instead of renting it out. Now worth about 6X what I paid for it. It was only little but our first "family" home and I still miss it.

FindingMeno · 22/11/2023 18:56

Worrying about my future too much and dropping out of the my alternative lifestyle.

ThunderSnacks · 22/11/2023 18:59

Not getting my French nationality when I could have, because "brexit will never happen". Now I don't qualify.

NunsKnickers · 22/11/2023 18:59

Training to be a teacher.

Sourisblanche · 22/11/2023 19:07

Moving back to U.K. in 2016. Didn’t see the warning (Brexit) signs 🤷‍♀️

WhyMeWhyNowWhyNot · 22/11/2023 19:09

Not learning a language so I could work for the EU. I’d have moved abroad and never looked back!

CryptoFascist · 22/11/2023 19:55

Not doing French A Level. I was brilliant at it! Now I only know un petit peu.

NameChangeDayNov · 22/11/2023 19:57

So many of these...

Plus:
Not trying hard enough at a-levels
Not buying the YSL Belle du Jour clutch bag before the design changed.
Not getting a mortgage pre 2008 (I didn't until 2021).

TheCadoganArms · 22/11/2023 20:05

I very nearly bought a knackered run down 3 bed chalet for bugger all just outside chamonix village when I was in my early 20s. By hook and by crook I had scraped together the finacing and had my offer agreed but I bottled it at the death as I did not even own a home in the UK and it would have taken me years to fix the place up. I went back to the UK and bought s small flat instead.

That chalet is now worth over a million euros.

AffIt · 22/11/2023 20:06

Refusing to take German as a language option at school because I could only take two language options and not three: one I was already bilingual in (Gaelic), the other pretty good anyway (French), so would it have killed me on point of principle?

I do still think I was right, but I would have liked to have learned another language. I've picked up a bit as an adult, but miss having missed out on that 'learning window' as a young person.

Thighdentitycrisis · 22/11/2023 20:09

Not wearing my brace aged 15

cottagepieandgravy · 22/11/2023 20:12

Moving back home after finishing university. I wish I'd moved to a city or abroad for a few years. I'm such a home bird but my dream career in the film industry lends itself to being city based, so I never managed to pursue it.

ManchesterLu · 22/11/2023 20:13

Not going to music college to piss my parents off because they were pushing me into it. I was/am really talented at my instrument, and I can't even think how good I'd be now if I'd gone to college to study it.

notahincheratall · 22/11/2023 20:25

Portach · 22/11/2023 18:16

Not sleeping with more Frenchmen.

This.
I wish I had had more adventure in my 20s. Travel and sexual. Settled down very early.
Am lucky as have love of life but think I would be a better person for it.

Yuja · 22/11/2023 20:32

My regret is going to music college. Should have kept music as a hobby but instead wasted 3 years .

caringcarer · 22/11/2023 20:32

Staying in my first marriage when I no longer lived h.

Not spending more time with my parents before they died

TurquoiseHexagonSun · 22/11/2023 20:57

Going to uni.

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