We had my DD in Jan 2020, we chose her godparents together, these were a married couple of my family friends (more like my aunt and uncle than friends really) my sister, his brother and his best friend and wife. Due to the chaos of COVID restrictions and having my DS in Dec 2020, and then family life, we never actually got round to the christenings but we have already asked these people to be godparents to both DC's and said when everything got back to normal we would arrange the christening, everybody agreed and was happy with this decision and being unofficial godparents.
Yesterday I came home to DP in foul mood, he started a massive argument about me applying for my daughters school without involving him, this is not true because we sat and discussed that we could put my his son (my stepson) down as her sibling as he would still be in the school when she started next September, I double checked his birthday because I always get confused with the date, and asked for his EX's address. There's also only one school she is in catchment for so there isn't really a choice on where she goes anyway. He started having a go because apparently I don't ask his permission when making decisions etc.
So I come home this morning and he announces that he's just asked someone that I've never met (though he's told plenty about him) to be my DC's godparents and they've agreed. I'm honestly not sure what has p me off more, the fact that he had a go the night before and then did the exact thing he's had a go at about, or the fact that this particular person has the worst values that I've ever known, and really don't want around my children. DC's are going to be 3 and 4 this Christmas and they've never even met these people despite living a mere 5mins away, they have done nothing for us or the children, unlike thier originally chosen godparents, am I justified to be annoyed?