Okay before people say I’m looking for attention I’m not!! Looking for validation of my feelings maybe, but that’s it! Last week, two hours after a red weather warning for wind, a large tree branch with three limbs, fell on my car at work. When I was inside the car. So needless to say it was terrifying. I did post previously about that part. Was told by many people I wouldn’t be here to tell the story, if I’d been out of the car. So while I feel guilty for saying it because I’m physically fine, I’m still finding it Very hard to process emotionally. Some people are supportive, some don’t seem to get it. Not that I keep mentioning it, just in general! So my AIBU is this. A colleague recently was upset because of an argument with another person at work. It was suggested that some of us who work in the same dept as her, give money for a treat to cheer her up. So we did. However, the same group didn’t do remotely similar for me. Not even a coffee! Not that I want material stuff, just the recognition, like was shown to other colleagues. AIBU to think this is a bit unfair?