Friend was upset that I’d had to cancel going to her house wanting (I double booked, I apologised profusely, I told her two days before, I said I’d try to do both but didn’t want to promise, I’ve have already seen her house so I’ve made the effort in that sense too just for context).
I rang her in the week, it wasn’t mentioned. We went out to breakfast this morning with a mutual friend. Had a great time, laughing and catching up. When maybe after an hour she said that needed to talk about the weekend and me cancelling and how I should have kept checking in with her (I did also text on the night to say I was stuck where I was and so sorry again.), it wasn’t a nice thing to do, how upset she was.
it completely ruined the entire atmosphere and we left after maybe 15 minutes. Also I’ve never once flaked on her ever. I definitely want a friend to tell me if I’ve upset them, but she had the chance when I called her, not in front of someone else and I kind of feel selfishly ruining everyone’s catch up.