Will give a bit of back story so you understand, core group of 6 close friends (talking 20 years plus) over this time others have become friends after getting to know one of us. See each other in passing, some for a coffee, school run try and do a meal 4 times a year for all of us.
3 years ago one of the core 6 was widowed with 2 small children (insurance etc was not what they thought they had) she was worked every hour she can with us core helping out with childcare etc, she started her own Body Shop page to earn extra money asking us if we were interested (my girls love there hair products) so we all order via her, but she is never in your face knows what we order and only messages to let us know when it is on offer or our order has arrived. Result she is doing well off Universal Credit and is slowly building a life.
A friend of one of the core who has not worked in years last year decided to set up a craft business (cos her husbands bonuses have gone down) supported her and ended up with a load of tat she has now set up as a Tropic ambassador (never heard of it) and is harrasing us daily (spent £40 on stuff did not want) but we are all now getting dailt texts catalogues shoved through our door, and being told we are not supporting here, tried to arrange the meal and was told it should be a tropic party at mine as I did one three years ago for the other friend so should do one for her do not want to how the hell do I say no and what would you do?