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To think the standard of living for retired people had to change

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downdowndowndowndown · 09/11/2023 14:50

I'm a millennial. I will retire in my seventies. Many in my age group will be still paying their mortgage off well into their sixties. Many will never be able to buy. This is not a moan about that.

My mums generation were able to buy cheaper houses in the eighties. Some have also inherited well (houses which their parents owned and didn't have to sell to pay for care, which had risen in price to above a million). They had better pension plans. Some were able to go to university for free and their degrees actually meant something in the workplace: They often paid off their mortgages in their forties. I see a lot of my parents relatives have retired early and have very enviable lives.

Two uncles have retired in their early sixties. They are both in good help. They spend their days on many holidays, eating out multiple times per week, going to garden centres, renovating their beautiful houses, helping children financially and with childcare. They will have presumably worked out their finances and could afford to continue to live like this for the rest of their lives! Possibly thirty more years!

I think they are possibly going to be unique in their quality of life. We will never have that and I don't see my children's generation having things any earlier.

In essence the generation before me were mostly fortunate, unless personal situations changed their financial situation or they lost their homes during the nineties interest rises. Retirements and pensions were never designed to support people for three decades and that things had to change hence raising the retirement age and making people pay more towards their care.

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Lentilweaver · 09/11/2023 17:32

FuzzyPuffling · 09/11/2023 17:29

"Free NHS care for the under 70s only"

Now I've heard it all. I am utterly shocked that any right- thinking person could even entertain such an appalling thought as this.

Unbelievable! Is that you, Suella?

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:32

theresnolimits · 09/11/2023 17:29

Are they not paying council tax then? Or VAT on everything they buy except food? Or keeping restaurants, pubs, cafes and garden centres’ staff in work?

Or paying income tax on those gold plated pensions you resent so much? In fact, I think the next round of pension increases will push everyone into tax as the personal allowance hasn’t been increased.

But they’re clearly not contributing …

They AREN’T ‘productive’.

Look, this isn’t something I’ve made up. Growth and Productivity are well known economic concepts.

You might not like them but that’s another story!

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 09/11/2023 17:33

*From their 20s to their 40s they will be paying the pensions of the current 60-80yr olds.

From their 20s to their 40s they will be paying the health care of the current 60-80yr olds.

From their 20s to their 40s they will be paying the social care of the current 60-80yr olds*

That would be the 60-80 year olds whose taxes paid for schools, doctors, nurses, dentists, teachers, libraries and the like when your children needed them, would it? and if they're in their 80s probably when you were a child, as well.

I’ll be encouraging them to vote to limit free NHS care to under 70s only

A society that can limit healthcare to one sector can quite easily do it to another. Incidentally, NHS care is only free at the point of use. It's funded by general taxation, paid for, among other people, by those 60-80 year olds you loathe so much.

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:34

Mytholmroyd · 09/11/2023 17:30

I agree @mayorofcasterbridge

And just how are these over-7Os on tiny pensions going to pay for their NHS care? That is not a society I want to live in. It's inhumane and totally batshit.

You seem really nice. Super kind hearted. And I agree we should all have everything free forever.

But, maths.

MakeTeaNotLove · 09/11/2023 17:34

plumtreebroke · 09/11/2023 15:12

Likewise, we had virtually nothing left at the end of the month having paid the mortgage at 15%, We couldn't afford to eat properly or heat the house. We didn't have a TV for a number of years after the B&W one someone gave us (second hand) died. No gadgets, no foreign holidays (in fact no holidays) for years. I do get sick of people saying how easy it was! I guess expectations were less and we were grateful for what we had, and just buying a property as the first in both our families was an achievement.

Yes but don't you remember? We were there too! We were the kids who were always told "no you can't have it" and who were hungry all day because our parents couldn't afford snacks.
I was amazed when I found out Pink Panther wafers were a real thing and not just something sold in Kwik Save No Frills Broken Biscuits.
Us millennials all lived through that too and we aren't getting to retire at 62 or even getting a house out of it.

JamSandle · 09/11/2023 17:34

There are lots of impoverished pensioners too.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 09/11/2023 17:34

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:28

Spending money is not growth. It’s about productivity.

(Come at me with your bad economics, cos on that I will win oh yeah Grin)

My kingdom for an ignore poster button, MN. Pretty please?

mayorofcasterbridge · 09/11/2023 17:35

potatoheads · 09/11/2023 16:10

Yes there was a terrible period but beyond that, how much was the house you bought and how much is the house worth now?

How dismissive.

What does it matter what the house is worth? That's only if you sell it, and people tend to need somewhere to live!!! We sold our first house which we bought for £30k in 1990, for £17 more 7 years later. My how we rolled in it.

viques · 09/11/2023 17:35

I would just like to point out a couple of things.

  1. yes, some of the boomer generation hit the perfect storm jackpot, free education, full employment, affordable homes. But not all of them did, before the eighties and nineties further education was only really available to about 18% of young people compared to the huge number who go to university now. Full employment is great, but for women we didn’t have equal pay, maternity pay and employment rights, had to put up with sexist and unequal work places where advancement was often for men only. Houses were cheaper but mortgage rates were killers, and women had to have male sponsors to get mortgage or other credit . And no, that perfect storm will never come again, it was an unprecedented and totally unexpected combination of post war policies to do with the regeneration of national health and wealth.

  2. in the OPs post she talks about childcare and financial help being offered. In financial terms a day or two of free child care is actually a huge support to working parents. Just pointing this out. In my day it was almost impossible to find good professional childcare for preschoolers and wrap around care was unheard of

  3. many of the houses owned today by boomers will be passed down to their children or grandchildren, yes, some will be sold to fund care or cats homes, but many people will inherit an extremely valuable property, or even properties.

FuzzyPuffling · 09/11/2023 17:35

Lentilweaver · 09/11/2023 17:32

Unbelievable! Is that you, Suella?

Huh?
Are you think I agree with this batshit idea?

VWdieselnightmare · 09/11/2023 17:36

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/11/2023 17:01

NI isn't insurance it is a tax and the state pension isn't a pension it is a contributions based state benefit.

That is why the benefits bill is so big - most of it is the state pension paments and that is set to get a lot bigger as the 1945- 1965 generation retires. The issue there is the generations below - those born 1966 - 2000 are much much smaller - there are literally less of them. Bit of a problem as they are meant to be paying for those state pensions.

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You do realise that wealthy pensioners continue to pay tax on their income, don't you? So my SIL, who taught for 38 years and retired a couple of years ago on close to £30k pension and has now added the state pension, meaning she's on around £40k pa, pays around £5k tax pa.

Better-off pensioners are still contributing financially to society and many are also supporting the very old and the very young. My SIL spends three days a week providing childcare for her grandchildren, enabling her daughters to work so that they can afford their lovely homes, their posh car loans and their foreign holidays — which are luxuries my SIL never had when she was raising them.

MontyDonsBlueScarf · 09/11/2023 17:36

Charlize43 · 09/11/2023 17:15

That's inhumane! Why is it less for the pre 2016?

That's when there was a big overhaul of the whole system. It was essentially simplified. Explanation here https://www.oversixties.co.uk/the-new-pension.html.
It was an absolute cut off and there was no way an older pensioner could qualify under the new rules, even if they had already made the increased number of qualifying years needed under the new scheme.

Judging by the way the £10,600 figure is bandied around I don't think many people realise this.

The New State Pension

How the new state pension rules differ from the old ones

https://www.oversixties.co.uk/the-new-pension.html

Pinkpinkplonk · 09/11/2023 17:37

downdowndowndowndown · 09/11/2023 15:02

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow everyone gets a state pension don't they?

No they definitely don’t!!

Lentilweaver · 09/11/2023 17:37

No sorry @FuzzyPuffling I meant to quote the poster who said that, but I quoted you by mistake. I thought the whole post would show up. I wish i could edit on here!

Zebedee55 · 09/11/2023 17:37

mayorofcasterbridge · 09/11/2023 17:18

It's a load of crap, not facts, but I am not going to waste my time trying to educate someone with such a closed, narrow mind.

Read the rest of the thread. You might actually learn something.

I was being ironic about the outraged entitlement of the younger generations. 🙂

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:37

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 09/11/2023 17:34

My kingdom for an ignore poster button, MN. Pretty please?

If you ignore me, how will you know what other people are thinking?

They are looking out of the window of their office blocks, knowing they will not retire until 70 while paying for this generation to retire 10 years earlier.

TheChristmasPig · 09/11/2023 17:38

downdowndowndowndown · 09/11/2023 14:50

I'm a millennial. I will retire in my seventies. Many in my age group will be still paying their mortgage off well into their sixties. Many will never be able to buy. This is not a moan about that.

My mums generation were able to buy cheaper houses in the eighties. Some have also inherited well (houses which their parents owned and didn't have to sell to pay for care, which had risen in price to above a million). They had better pension plans. Some were able to go to university for free and their degrees actually meant something in the workplace: They often paid off their mortgages in their forties. I see a lot of my parents relatives have retired early and have very enviable lives.

Two uncles have retired in their early sixties. They are both in good help. They spend their days on many holidays, eating out multiple times per week, going to garden centres, renovating their beautiful houses, helping children financially and with childcare. They will have presumably worked out their finances and could afford to continue to live like this for the rest of their lives! Possibly thirty more years!

I think they are possibly going to be unique in their quality of life. We will never have that and I don't see my children's generation having things any earlier.

In essence the generation before me were mostly fortunate, unless personal situations changed their financial situation or they lost their homes during the nineties interest rises. Retirements and pensions were never designed to support people for three decades and that things had to change hence raising the retirement age and making people pay more towards their care.

So your parents are wealthy OP but you don't expect to inherit from them. Have you been horrible to them? I dunno, maybe you've resented their good fortune and moaned about them on line?

Ponoka7 · 09/11/2023 17:38

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:34

You seem really nice. Super kind hearted. And I agree we should all have everything free forever.

But, maths.

What's your stance on child sex offenders, those serving life sentences etc? I take it that you are in favour of a loose death sentence?

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 09/11/2023 17:38

You do realise that wealthy pensioners continue to pay tax on their income, don't you?

Anyone whose pension is over the tax free limit pays tax, not just the wealthy ones.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 09/11/2023 17:38

Fieldofbrokenpromises · 09/11/2023 16:59

So Labour didn’t close them all in the 60s/70s.

In fact one M Thatcher approved more comprehensive schools between 1970 and 1974 than any other sec of state for education.

Does scrapping mean they were all closed immediately? Seems unlikely…as well as impossible…. And yes, more schools were opened as the population grew, but the apparatus of grammar schools had been wilfully destroyed by the levelling down Labour Party and councils they were comprehensives 😂Who’d have thought opening more schools was a bad thing ;)

AutumnColour89 · 09/11/2023 17:39

You say that, but I started a role in a Jobcentre back in 2018- in my first week we were told in a trauning session that economists calculated that baby born that day would be expected to work u til age 90.

They then led in to why it's important for employers to give all ages a chance (appreciate a lot of private sector ones don't).

Zebedee55 · 09/11/2023 17:39

MontyDonsBlueScarf · 09/11/2023 17:36

That's when there was a big overhaul of the whole system. It was essentially simplified. Explanation here https://www.oversixties.co.uk/the-new-pension.html.
It was an absolute cut off and there was no way an older pensioner could qualify under the new rules, even if they had already made the increased number of qualifying years needed under the new scheme.

Judging by the way the £10,600 figure is bandied around I don't think many people realise this.

Those that retired later had to wait up to six years extra to get it. Women that used to retire at 60 often had to wait until they were 66 (WASPIS). The later ones got a higher flat rate pension.

FuzzyPuffling · 09/11/2023 17:39

Lentilweaver · 09/11/2023 17:37

No sorry @FuzzyPuffling I meant to quote the poster who said that, but I quoted you by mistake. I thought the whole post would show up. I wish i could edit on here!

No problem..forgiven!
( Not Suella!)

mayorofcasterbridge · 09/11/2023 17:40

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:28

How did you do in Maths @mayorofcasterbridge ?

Better than you I'll wager. I take it you're not in a caring profession then?!

Your attitude stinks. It's not about Maths. It's about social conscience and you are totally devoid of one.

It's disgraceful that such a huge world economy would ever even think about such a vile practice. This country can afford it, but the fat cats cream off so much!! What a horrible mind you must have.

I hope to never meet you or your children. What a way to bring a child up.

VWdieselnightmare · 09/11/2023 17:40

WeightWhat · 09/11/2023 17:37

If you ignore me, how will you know what other people are thinking?

They are looking out of the window of their office blocks, knowing they will not retire until 70 while paying for this generation to retire 10 years earlier.

You are aware that the current retirement age is 66 and will soon be going up to 67, don't you? So why pretend that everyone retires at 60? I know a woman in her 80s who is still working in the kitchens of one of the local pubs.

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