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Middle lane - how did you know?

308 replies

Graasspp · 08/11/2023 13:33

Who taught you to stay left unless overtaking on the motorway?

How did all these utter counts not learn this?

For me it was my dad who told me.

Aibu to wonder how this ignorance prevails daily?

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TeslaTwat · 08/11/2023 17:31

Teapot32 · 08/11/2023 16:47

I can’t believe people actually get upset enough to write a thread about this???

I can't believe people don't.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 08/11/2023 17:31

Flyhigher · 08/11/2023 15:13

Ooh. You guys will hate me then. I always go middle lane. Tend to find left lanes drive at 50/60. So have to overtake all the time. I think we were taught that you could drive in the middle lane.
It's full of lorries you can't see anything ahead. I don't feel safe there.
I do tend to go in middle lane and zone out relaxing. And I hate the guys who go cutting in front and then go into the left lane. Especially if both lanes are quite empty.
It's more dangerous cutting in. It feels very aggressive. I'm often looking out for road signs and trying not to get lost. So be kind instead. Life is too short.

The guys you hate are trying to make a point to the middle lane hogger aka YOU. They overtake you, then move into the left lane because you are supposed to drive in the left lane once you have finished overtaking.

And as for "zone out relaxing", you're an accident causer waiting to happen.

Idiots like you should have their licences revoked.

AlwaysUtterChaos · 08/11/2023 17:34

The 'cutting in front for the slow lane dangerous manoeuvre' can usually be translated into 'move over, Ive had to hop two lanes and back purely to get past you hogging the middle lane.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 08/11/2023 17:35

VestPantsandSocks · 08/11/2023 16:59

I am also this idiot.
Who drives at 70 mph in the middle lane.
Which is the speed limit.
And doesnt want to keep switching lanes to avoid joining traffic.

If you don't want to keep switching lanes, then just stop driving. It's not for you.

TeslaTwat · 08/11/2023 17:35

Flyhigher · 08/11/2023 16:20

Ooh the aggression. It's obviously a contentious issue. I will not be nipping in and out of the left lane every 10 minutes on a three hour journey.
Lots of junctions. And slow cars and slow lorries. I'm lucky my car is quite fast and it has no problems with hills. So it would mean I would catch up a slow car or a slow lorry every 5 minutes. If you haven't driven a fast car or you just prefer to drive at 55 everywhere that's fine. Or you enjoy changing lanes every 10 minutes. That's ok. Your passive aggression and swiping in front of me are unnecessary. We've gone a bit nuts! Make bad decisions on the big things (Brexit, tories) and get super uptight on small things. I thought we hated rules?

Ok. I apologise if I'm in a middle lane and you hate seeing me there. My car is quite fast and I can see the left lane car and I'm gaining on it, and there's a junction coming up in 5 minutes. So.. I will listen to a great track, ring my sister/ daughter / husband and look forward to seeing her and mum. And forget the uptight car streaming up behind me all indignant and then overtake and go in the left lane and often turn off . Why not just chill out. Go slower turn off look forward to your day/ evening. I've got another three hours to go, so I'm really not going to dip in and out for the next three hours.

Sorry if that upsets you. Don't mean to, am just on a long car journey.

Please hand your license back. You are everything that's wrong with driving on the motorway and humanity in general with your entitled attitude.

You think you have a fast car? Great! We can all only legally get to 70 so no one gives a fuck but they do give a fuck that you think you can do what you want rather than follow the rules of the road which are created and governed for the safety of all other road users.

TeslaTwat · 08/11/2023 17:39

MorrisZapp · 08/11/2023 17:06

Can someone explain how staying in the middle lane causes accidents?

Typically it causes long, unnecessary tailbacks and delays rather than accidents but that's not to say it doesn't. Those who do middle lane hog typically move at their own speed rather than the speed limit or in relation to those around so there is an increased amount of lane changing and acceleration/deceleration around them which can lead to an increase in accidents. You can google for a video of how this affects the roads and a better explanation than mine.

LlynTegid · 08/11/2023 17:47

The Highway Code in my case.

There are the under 10 per cent of instances where it is reasonable (the lorry issue or to let someone out from a slip road), the remaining are not. It is not something to see as a minor irritation, it reduces the capacity of the road at above average use, and can provoke behaviour that leads to crashes or other harmful behaviour.

Evidence from a dash cam or passenger video should be admissible in court to lead to points on driving licences. The usual reticence to report people would not be there.

DelightfullyDotty · 08/11/2023 17:48

WhatGoesUpMustComeDown · 08/11/2023 15:16

Arrogance. My sister steadfastly refuses to move over to the left if she's going at 70mph because 'it's the speed limit and they shouldn't need to go faster than that'.

It's ignorance + arrogance + choosing to do things 'your way' just because you can.

Hate it, it makes driving more stressful and dangerous for everybody. The Germans are fantastic at this, they use the motorways how they are designed and always move in and out constantly.

But it is the speed limit isn’t it? It’s not ‘her way’, it’s the legal maximum limit. And why does someone going over the speed limit need two lanes in which to do so? If you want to overtake someone in the middle Lane doing 70mph you do so in the fast lane surely?

Busephalus · 08/11/2023 17:51

Surely tail gating is more dangerous and aggressive

Jdmac47 · 08/11/2023 17:52

Absolutely drives me frigging insane. No nedd whatsoever for it! My dad & driving instructor and common sense!

Busephalus · 08/11/2023 17:57

Teslatwat - everything that's wrong with humanity?! Wowser chill out or don't drive

MrTiddlesTheCat · 08/11/2023 17:58

Shade17 · 08/11/2023 17:08

flashing their lights.

That’s actually one of the only legitimate uses of flashed headlights.

I don't think it is. Try doing it behind a police car and see what happens.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/11/2023 18:07

Busephalus · 08/11/2023 17:51

Surely tail gating is more dangerous and aggressive

And undertaking, and cutting across, and speeding. And weaving in and out of traffic in the inside lane.

But no, being in the middle lane for a few seconds than Mr Very Important In his Expensive SUV wants you to be is incredibly dangerous.

Apparently.

I think lane discipline on overseas motorways is better than here, but they are also a lot less crowded.

If you are on a quiet part of the M74, lane discipline is excellent too because there's nothing (much) to overtake.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/11/2023 18:08

Timefordrama · 08/11/2023 17:50

@Flyhigher and @VestPantsandSocks this might help you understand that your way of driving isn't just inconsiderate, it's downright dangerous https://www.pendlelease.co.uk/news/dangers-of-middle-lane-hogging#:~:text=1)%20It%20slows%20down%20traffic,middle%20and%20right%2Dhand%20lanes.

It is dangerous in the same way as driving too slowly on an A road is dangerous - it annoys people and they get aggressive. That's on them. Not the person who is going too slowly or middle lane sitting.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/11/2023 18:12

The Germans are fantastic at this, they use the motorways how they are designed and always move in and out constantly

Indeed, but they presumably also let each other out. Which British drivers don't do and you just get stuck. And in my experience, their motorways are much less busy a lot of the time (except when they aren't :))

On the plus side, we don't get nearly as many "ghost drivers" as they do, managing to join motorways in the wrong direction!

Timefordrama · 08/11/2023 18:13

But it's also illegal! Other people don't need to get aggressive for that to be a fact. The middle lane hogger is in the wrong. Whataboutery doesn't change that.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 08/11/2023 18:13

It is dangerous in the same way as driving too slowly on an A road is dangerous - it annoys people and they get aggressive. That's on them. Not the person who is going too slowly or middle lane sitting.

But it's not either/or, is it? They are both in the wrong - the driver who reacts aggressively and the driver unnecessarily inconveniencing other road users by not following the Highway Code.

PuttingDownRoots · 08/11/2023 18:16

On a German motorway you keep right out of the way of the people going 100mph!

The British could learn a lit from the Germansabout creating space for Emergency vehicles though.

asterel · 08/11/2023 18:22

As well as normally being on the busiest motorways, the main 3-lane A roads as well as the motorways near me are all on a major freight route. Which means that the left hand lane can be simply chock full of freight traffic all going at 60 mph - with it being quite dangerous already for joiners. In that situation I absolutely think it is safer for small cars to be in the middle lane going at 70. There are constant accidents around here where small cars have been caught between two lorries — a friend of mine was dragged along the motorway in her Fiat by a lorry which had caught her bumper — terrifying. Moving in and out, and changing speed up and down by up to 10 mph as you do so, is not particularly safe, just because someone doesn’t like the idea of “middle lane hogging”.

asterel · 08/11/2023 18:22

As well as normally being on the busiest motorways, the main 3-lane A roads as well as the motorways near me are all on a major freight route. Which means that the left hand lane can be simply chock full of freight traffic all going at 60 mph - with it being quite dangerous already for joiners. In that situation I absolutely think it is safer for small cars to be in the middle lane going at 70. There are constant accidents around here where small cars have been caught between two lorries — a friend of mine was dragged along the motorway in her Fiat by a lorry which had caught her bumper — terrifying. Moving in and out, and changing speed up and down by up to 10 mph as you do so, is not particularly safe, just because someone doesn’t like the idea of “middle lane hogging”.

easylikeasundaymorn · 08/11/2023 18:22

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/11/2023 15:26

I have to say I always find all this talk of "constant" middle lane hoggers quite bemusing. I actually see very few genuine middle lane hoggers, as in someone who sits in the middle (or third lane on a 4 lane motorway) for miles, even when there's nothing in the inside lane.

Everyone else seems to think that a hogger includes someone who stays in the middle lane 10 seconds longer than the driver behind decides that they need to, or dares to move over because the inside lane will become a slip road, or goes onto another motorway or similar. Or doesn't keep weaving in and out of lorries when there is a small space between them.

The bigger issue for me is the lorries that decide to overtake another lorry when one is going 58mph and they are doing 59mph. And then sit alongside them for miles.

I agree with this. Not sure if perhaps some of the other posters live in very quiet areas/don't drive during rush hour but I find very often that the left-most lane is completely full of lorries and the odd slow driver all sticking doggedly to 60 or less, meaning if you want to go more than that (even just a consistent 65) you end up spending your whole journey nearly constantly overtaking. Sometimes there is very little point (and it isn't usually safe), to keep jogging in-between the first and second lane every other car length, thus why some people just stick to the second lane. Obviously you shouldn't ever just 'zone out' and stick to the middle/second lane for your convenience; if there is a fair gap then you should move back left, even if you assume you'll probably need to overtake again in a minute, but a lot of the time there just isn't the space!

The 'rules' for driving were introduced when the average car couldn't go anywhere near the speeds they can now, we had far fewer heavy goods vehicles and cars generally on the road.

Yes in ideal circumstances you should spend nearly all your journey in the left-most lane, only venturing out to overtake (or to make space if there are a lot of vehicles trying to join, although this isn't necessary), but there aren't often 'ideal driving circumstances' anymore.

JustHereWithMyPumpkin · 08/11/2023 18:25

I think people do it for two reasons:

1 They aren't paying attention to the left lane and so don't move in when empty.
2 Nobody lets anybody out anymore so they think fuck it, I'm not moving back in, I'll stay right here.

Neither is good driving obviously but this is my conclusion.

Tara336 · 08/11/2023 18:28

@Flyhigher and life will be even shorter if you keep driving incorrectly and zoning out!

GrittyTunnocks · 08/11/2023 18:29

budgiegirl · 08/11/2023 13:45

Surely you just learn this as part of your driving lessons? After all, you will have driven on dual carriageways, the rules are very similar, just one less lane. Nowadays, most learners will have been taken on a motorway by their driving instructor.

Not all areas have dual carriageways. My boyfriend at the time took his test in a town with a roundabout, a level crossing, and a pelican crossing for hazards!!