the OP does not explicitly state that she is or was trying to get the book withdrawn for the entire class. Your interpretation of her comments might be that was her intent, but she does not say this.
However, I can see most people on here agree with me, which is very reassuring, so thankyou for those who have been supportive, it gave me impetus! and clearly many other parents, and the head is also concerned, so hopefully that book will not be coming back =
= ⬆️No idea if it was OP's intent. But she's certainly not concerned that children other than her child are impacted.
She does say that she is going to complain about the inappropriateness of the book for her child. Perhaps to question the book as appropriate content for 11 year olds full stop. I’d take that as part of a reasoned debate, wouldn’t you?
I've read the book, I got hold of it last week when my child first got upset. Its CRAP
⬆️Doesn't strike me as reasoned debate no.
Neither does the OP provide clear evidence that she is ‘slating the teacher via gossip and supposition’. The most we can take away from her posts is that she spoke to one other parent passing on the message. Again, that is your interpretation of events. Maybe she was ringing up all the parents slating the teacher personally, but maybe she wasn’t. Perhaps she was simply calling other parents to ask if their child was upset, did they have concerns.
I'd lay odds they have never had a baby. I'd lay odds that they are from a privileged background thinking they are being "edgy" by introducing traumatic themes, without any understanding at all that most of their pupils have more traumatic themes in their real lives then this teacher has read about, and need no "introduction"
= ⬆️supposition
The head didn't say the head of English was new and inexperienced, other students and parents have said so. I didn't speak directly to the head, just to someone else who was passing the message on, as it has already been decided
⬆️= " other students and parents" = gossip
There are ways of withdrawing your child from activities at school. And there are ways of trying to get the activity itself stopped.
Despite your forensic denial, I think it's really quite clear to see which way the OP has approached this.
Many of us have an opinion on our children's learning and what is suitable or not, but with parents like this I pity teachers tbh.
@DrBlackbird