I would like to get some perspectives on a situation I am in.
I have quite a lot of debt. It's not something I am proud of but it is being dealt with by a debt management company. My husband was aware of some of my debt but not about some parking fines I had stupidly racked up.
He found out about these by going through my email account without my knowledge. We've had a conversation about the debt and we're sitting down together to take a good long look at the financial situation and where I stand with it. The debt and the payment of it solely belongs to me and I am not asking or expecting him to pay any of it. He's just helping me organise myself a bit better.
It was a difficult talk, I'm not very good at sharing things and whilst we have made a plan about the debt, I haven't said anything about him going through my email. Should I? Or does me not telling him about parking fines cancel out him looking through my emails?