A friend of mine (10 + years of friendship) has always been pro-life. I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion but no need to share when it’s unhelpful.
Lately more friends are getting married and her first question is always “so when will you both have our babies” - and openly admits to constantly asking whenever she talks to them - it’s a joke but I find it so weird.
Whenever friends have had unplanned pregnancies she (of course) convinces them to go ahead with pregnancy (I guess as opposed to listening) Then promises that she will be there no matter what - but obviously cannot be, in reality she’s committed to the odd babysitting and visits and days out (which is nice as many friends don’t put that effort in). But her approach almost simplifies the real support needed.
I don’t talk to her much these days but whenever we are in the same social settings and this topic comes up - it annoys me. She knows that I am pro-choice and often I talk a lot about the realities of parenting (as a parent) - but her thinking shocks me every time.
I think I’m getting annoyed at the naivety of her thinking and lack of sensitivity around this topic. AIBU?