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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Do you prefer Halloween or Bonfire Night?

88 replies

LilyAB · 02/11/2023 02:19

YABU - Halloween 🎃
YANBU - Bonfire Night💥

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justaboutdonenow · 02/11/2023 08:59

Halloween 100%, I love decorating the house & still do pumpkin carving with my now adult children.
We usually have a party but this year we held it closer to my birthday, in mid October.
I love a bonfire, but hate fireworks, not the public displays so much as the sudden random ones let off nearby.

DappledThings · 02/11/2023 09:00

Bonfire night. Used to be you could goto fireworks in so many places. All the sports clubs, loads of people had them. All gone by the wayside. Most of the big council ones don't run anymore.

Halloween wasn't a thing at all when I was younger and I still find it really weird it is at all for my children. We did trick or treating for the first time this year because they'd begged to. I'm still bemused by how big that's got and found it really odd doing it.

WeighDownOnMe · 02/11/2023 09:03

Bonfire Night because my kids aren't into it so I can just sit at my window with a glass of wine watching the fireworks over the river.

Needmorelego · 02/11/2023 09:15

@Costacoffeeplease Bonfire Night is a British festival so if you live in another country of course it will be ignored.

Lifelessordinary1 · 02/11/2023 09:16

Bonfire Night - i love fireworks

Needmorelego · 02/11/2023 09:19

I would prefer it that fireworks were only sold to those with a license and not sold in supermarkets to any Tom, Dick and Sally
and all displays were organised ones.

TheKeatingFive · 02/11/2023 09:20

Well I'm Irish catholic background, so Halloween 😂

Having said that, I had some enjoyable bonfire nights when I lived in London. We used to go round to a friends house for fireworks, bonfire, bangers and mash and that was a fun evening. But now I'm back in Dublin, it's not celebrated.

LittleVampireDucky · 02/11/2023 09:26

Desecratedcoconut · 02/11/2023 05:37

Such was the tone of conversation around the dinner table about the house of commons growing up under Thatcher in an area decimated by her policies, that I spent several years as a child under the impression that Bonfire Night was a celebration of Guy Fawkes giving it his best shot 😁

Edited

Love this 😂

I didn't grow up in the UK so both of them are newish to me. I have to say though that after having kids Halloween is really growing on me. I love festivals that have fixed traditions l, ie pumpkin carving, Halloween decorations, dressing up and trick or treating.

The history of bon fire night is very interesting but apart from that it just seems to be standing around in the cold waiting for fire works to start. Or is there anything else that I'm missing?

herewegoroundthebastardbush · 02/11/2023 09:33

My birthday is on bonfire night, it also used to be a great night - big bonfire and fireworks in the garden, staying up late with the grown ups, jacket potatoes cooked in foil in the fire

Nowadays noone would have a fire like that in their normal size garden, it wouldn't be safe - not let off fireworks themselves in such a confined space. Or I suppose some people do, but I wouldn't risk it with my kids. Which is a shame because it was so much fun! But times have changed... We retried going to the big events but it's always a nightmare, too crowded, food and drink too expensive, too much waiting around, the long walk home after - no fun for the kids or us really. I wish I had a massive garden so we could do our own thing safely!

UnalliterativeGeorge · 02/11/2023 09:38

NoWordForFluffy · 02/11/2023 05:24

Bonfire Night. Because it's my birthday!

Mine too Grin

Costacoffeeplease · 02/11/2023 09:39

@Needmorelego Exactly, and thank goodness for it

Gaslit3 · 02/11/2023 09:46

Love both, I really enjoy this week of the year, more than any other holiday tbh. I spend both Halloween and bonfire night with my kids in our local community. It's fun and exciting, but also not too overwhelming. Christmas gets so overhyped I spend most of December managing meltdowns and by the time it comes around I just want it over. I do like NYE though, as again it's self contained and I love fireworks.

Whinge · 02/11/2023 09:46

I prefer halloween as you can opt in. Where as others celebrating bonfire night and letting off fireworks is something you can't avoid.

herewegoroundthebastardbush · 02/11/2023 09:47

Needmorelego · 02/11/2023 09:19

I would prefer it that fireworks were only sold to those with a license and not sold in supermarkets to any Tom, Dick and Sally
and all displays were organised ones.

The organised displays are so shit though ☹️ always just such a hassle, too many people and hanging around, which given its meant to be for kids (not patient people as a rule) seems a bit pointless really. Maybe there are events in smaller places that are nicer, but in the city it's always huge and horrible. And there is almost never an actual bonfire! Which I know is for good environmental reasons but ☹️ still I miss it.

Sparklers in the back yard is as good as it gets now! Halloween is great for the kids, massive ballache for the grownups. But worth it for their giggles I suppose!

CrushingOnRubies · 02/11/2023 09:47

Bonfire night- marks the start of my favourite time of year

ilovesooty · 02/11/2023 09:48

I don't like either of them. Roll on Monday.

Universalsnail · 02/11/2023 09:48

Halloween. Bonfire night always feels like a chore I do for the kids. Like fully can't be bothered to pay money to stand in a muddy field with fair ground rides to watch fireworks tbh but feel like a bad mum if we don't 😂

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 02/11/2023 09:49

DaisyWaldron · 02/11/2023 05:32

Halloween. It's the traditional autumn festival where I grew up, and we didn't have bonfire night, so I have so many fond memories of past Halloweens, with traditional food and games and fun and community. Taken over the full period from Halloween to All Souls Day, it feels cozy, but also a really meaningful time for memory and reflection.

Bonfire night is full of loud scary bangs and I am kind of uncomfortable with the whole reenactment of an actual execution thing, but I do realise that they are both essentially the same festival, about warmth and fire as the nights get dark. It feels shallower than Halloween, without the aspect of thinking about our dead loved ones and our own mortality, but that might just be because it's not my cultural tradition and so I don't get the nuance.

It’s not an execution as such though… the conspirators were hung, drawn and quartered, not burned at the stake.

And to be honest (watched C5 documentary last night) the extent of the blast should it have happened would have been felt outside Houses of Parliament, killing and burning innocent people.

Sunshower86 · 02/11/2023 09:51

Universalsnail · 02/11/2023 09:48

Halloween. Bonfire night always feels like a chore I do for the kids. Like fully can't be bothered to pay money to stand in a muddy field with fair ground rides to watch fireworks tbh but feel like a bad mum if we don't 😂

Yes this completely.

mondaytosunday · 02/11/2023 10:03

Halloween. When young it's an activity, and when older you still feel involved. Unless going to a fireworks display Bonfire night is just annoying as people let off random fireworks that annoy my dogs and me. Wouldn't ban it or anything though, perhaps private sales though. Leave it to organised experts.

BirthdayFlower · 02/11/2023 10:06

Bonfire Night. Not fussed about fireworks but have many happy memories of having a bonfire as a child, eating sausages, tomato soup from a mug and parkin outside in the dark. Did it use to be a lot colder though?- I remember always being wrapped up in hats and gloves which seems crazy now.

BitofaStramash · 02/11/2023 10:08

Halloween

Whilst I like fireworks the anti catholic origin of Bonfire night makes me uneasy

TheYearOfSmallThings · 02/11/2023 10:11

Halloween!

Bonfire night doesn't exist outside the UK, so I remember reading about it in Secret Seven books and thinking that was what British people called Halloween.

Mamato29192 · 02/11/2023 10:11

Bonfire night

NoWordForFluffy · 02/11/2023 10:16

UnalliterativeGeorge · 02/11/2023 09:38

Mine too Grin

Wish I had a quid every time somebody says, 'Bet you came out with a bang!' 🎆 🙄🤣