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To think Halloween is just another massive marketing ploy we've all fallen for.

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Blwean · 31/10/2023 17:00

Reading this article today https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/oct/30/halloween-boo-basket-useless-clutter?CMP=fb_gu&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR1HhG1J-mqf1zU7ss8lxMCkNwsMJVTKudjgEt4auGVFrS8qwKuIUUUBmQc#Echobox=1698686636

Apparently Halloween spending is set to surpass £1bn in the UK this year for the first time and shops have been making a concerted effort since 00s to introduce more products and use social media influencers to push them.

Then there's pumpkin patches. Basically fields where people place pumpkins as there's none actually growing there and people pay silly prices to go and take pictures for Instagram. A friend of mine paid £50 to take her and DCs to one of these places then she's shelled out £20 on each of them for costumes and over £30 on decorations. It's her business what she spends on but just last month she was complaining about cost of living.

I'm all for celebrating Halloween but it's just about spending more and more money each year. The Instagramisation of it has ruined it and everyone just blindly spends loads on costumes they'll use once and other meaningless tat. Its the shops cashing in and we're all just like sheep who follow the marketing and influencers so we spend more

I was all for Halloween mania in the UK. Then I heard about ‘boo baskets’ | Amelia Tait

These hampers full of useless clutter have nothing to do with the true spirit of the season, says freelance writer Amelia Tait

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/oct/30/halloween-boo-basket-useless-clutter?CMP=fb_gu&fbclid=IwAR1HhG1J-mqf1zU7ss8lxMCkNwsMJVTKudjgEt4auGVFrS8qwKuIUUUBmQc#Echobox=1698686636

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smartpocketwatch · 01/11/2023 10:12

KimberleyClark · 01/11/2023 09:42

I’m still reeling from the trick or treaters a poster said told her “we’re not taking sweets any more, only money”.

Shocking! We should misappropriate the American tradition and egg any greedy kid who come around guising and looking for money only!

ColleenDonaghy · 01/11/2023 10:20

Gingerbee · 01/11/2023 10:06

You can tell if the children who are of Celtic heritage when they knock the door. They have all been taught to say a poem or sing a song at the door on Halloween.
All the others said "Happy Halloween".
Not one said 'trick or treat'

I'm Irish and we never said a poem or sang a song, only ever shouted "Trick or treat".

SpicedAppleAndFreshCider · 01/11/2023 10:22

We live at the end of our village (point being not many children come our way) and forgot to get sweets so didn't decorate and closed the curtains with dim lights. I spent a great deal of time telling the dogs to get out the window barking at any trick or treaters and drawing attention to our house.

I felt really mean. Some people in our village really go to town and it looks really good. So I'm glad people had a good time.

Fizbosshoes · 01/11/2023 10:23

Is there still a trick element of trick or treat?
My expectation is that children go to decorated houses or those with a pumpkin and get sweets/treats. What is the trick part?
I'm pretty sure when I was a teen a trick was pelting someone's house with eggs! ...so it seems reasonable that people would rather just do the treat element!

KissTheRains · 01/11/2023 10:41

Fizbosshoes · 01/11/2023 10:23

Is there still a trick element of trick or treat?
My expectation is that children go to decorated houses or those with a pumpkin and get sweets/treats. What is the trick part?
I'm pretty sure when I was a teen a trick was pelting someone's house with eggs! ...so it seems reasonable that people would rather just do the treat element!

My kid went out with a little spray bottle filled with water, one of the plant spritzing type that let out a fine mist though not like a water pistol. It was her witches potion 🤣

booksandbrooks · 01/11/2023 10:54

Gosh people are miserable aren't they?

You buy Halloween stuff. Oh people are wasting money.

You have a bonus bank holiday for the Queen/ king's whatever: do you know how much bank holidays cost the economy? Complaints ahoy.

Personally we love spending money on dress ups and sweets all year round and any new bits of costume will see a whole load of use before going to the school fundraiser fancy dress stall or charity shop. A lot of them are hand me downs and second hand anyway. I've no idea what a boo bucket is 🤷‍♀️ we use the same decorations every year, same as Christmas.

Trinity65 · 01/11/2023 12:52

So many fun sponging misogs

HappiestSleeping · 01/11/2023 13:23

icewoman · 31/10/2023 17:01

speak for yourself, I haven't fallen for anything

This 👆

I bought one box of quality street just in case neighbours children knocked (they're new neighbours), but fortunately, they saw there were no decorations here and didn't knock so we get to eat them ourselves. Happy days.

CowboyJoanna · 01/11/2023 16:50

PabloandGustheGreySquirrels · 31/10/2023 23:34

@CowboyJoanna

Once again, I find myself reminding people that Halloween is NOT American!!!! It started in SCOTLAND!!!!🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Yes I know I know but the modern celebration of it IS american. "trick or treat", the candy, the pumpkins etc.

TrixieFatell · 01/11/2023 16:56

Surely it's like every other day that's been commercialized (Easter, Christmas, Valentines etc).

I remember as a young child in the 80s celebrating Halloween, dressing up as a cat ( my mum made ears and a tail out of fake fur and sewed them to a headband and my school leotard), carving turnips, trick treating and Halloween parties where we bobed for apples and had to eat Scots pancakes covered in treacle hanging from a piece of string with our hands behind our back). My family are Scottish so it's always been a thing. I've carried it on with my kids, making them costumes and trick treating. We grew our own pumpkins and made our Halloween decorations. Not cost much at all.

You will always have those who go over the top, no matter the occasion. That's down to social media.

GrimGrinningGhosts · 01/11/2023 17:16

CowboyJoanna · 01/11/2023 16:50

Yes I know I know but the modern celebration of it IS american. "trick or treat", the candy, the pumpkins etc.

Exactly! Damn those Americanised Victorians eh? 😂

https://www.history.co.uk/articles/9-forgotten-halloween-traditions

9 forgotten Halloween traditions from the UK

From soul cakes and Allan Day to the Lancashire tradition of 'leeting', here are some Halloween traditions that you may not know

https://www.history.co.uk/articles/9-forgotten-halloween-traditions

OceanicBoundlessness · 01/11/2023 17:46

People can do a much or as little as they want... Or nothing.

This year I spent £6 at a little craft fayre on bunting, £3 on some mass produced pumpkin shaped tealight holders, £10 on snacks for my daughter to take with her as a contribution to a party and the biggest expense, I made up little goodie bags for anyone who knocked on our door because I like to go a bit extra on making a fuss of the kids.

BitofaStramash · 01/11/2023 18:00

Another year and another Halloween thread filled with Little Englanders (incorrectly) lecturing Scots that Halloween is American 😂

See you in a few weeks when you all get your knickers in a twist over us calling the big man, Santa.

Meowandthen · 01/11/2023 18:09

BitofaStramash · 31/10/2023 20:06

@Meowandthen

There's been guisers at my door with neep lanterns tonight.

Every kid has done a party piece or a joke for their Halloween.

At a Halloween party last night there was dooking for apples, treacle scones, dipping for donuts and other traditional games and bannocks to eat.

Maybe it's American in your part of Little Englandshire but it's pretty traditional in my bit of Scotland.

That was such a nice post until the patronising “little Englandshire”. Really no need for that tone. You also have no idea where I live.

Nevertheless, I am pleased that traditions hold out in some places still.

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