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Feel horrendous every time the clocks go back

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GCAcademic · 30/10/2023 18:43

Literally the day that the clocks go back, I feel awful. It seems to get worse every year and lasts for weeks. Exhausted by 4pm, freezing cold (even with the heating at 20 degrees), just want to crawl into bed before it’s even dinner time.

Anyone else? And does anyone have any tips for dealing with this?

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Wexone · 30/10/2023 21:19

love the hour going back. can't deal with it going forward. much much prefer brighter mornings. even on Saturday before clock's went back it was dark till after 8am where I live. if we kept summer time then it would be dark till after 10am by December. it's far easier and more productive to wake up when it's bright. I really wish they would keep this time

heyomayo · 30/10/2023 21:19

Fun and cosy when you have no responsibilities but a different matter altogether when you’ve got to commute or pop to the shops after work. No fun. I’d like somewhere in the middle… I’m happiest around April and September when it gets dark around 8pm ish.

CranfordScones · 30/10/2023 21:20

Yes - stubborn body clock, so nudging it by just an hour is hugely disruptive. I love autumn but I'll be bloody knackered for the next 2 weeks...

Notimeforaname · 30/10/2023 21:26

I love changing the clocks, either way. I get excited for it like its special occasion. I'd be raging if they took it away.

Coffeerum · 30/10/2023 21:31

CallieQ · 30/10/2023 20:48

Everyone is different @HeddaGarbled
I honestly have felt jet lagged all day

So you never have a night where you sleep slightly less? Stay up a bit later? Need to wake up earlier?

1 hr doesn’t remotely have a jet lag effect.

Sunsept · 30/10/2023 21:53

Itwasamemo3 · 30/10/2023 20:42

But that will happen ,even if the clocks don’t go back . It would still be dark in a couple of weeks time 🤷‍♀️

Thank you! That was exactly what I was thinking - the darkness will come anyway.

bellac11 · 30/10/2023 22:00

Coffeerum · 30/10/2023 21:31

So you never have a night where you sleep slightly less? Stay up a bit later? Need to wake up earlier?

1 hr doesn’t remotely have a jet lag effect.

This is why it doesnt make sense, I believe its psychological

Its 10pm now, so actually on Saturday it would have been 11pm right now

So its my bedtime and as it happens Im now feeling tired at 10pm because its 'actually' 11pm (BST)

So Im going to bed in a minute.

My body doesnt know the clock has changed, it just knows I go to bed around now.

Notonthestairs · 30/10/2023 22:06

Notimeforaname · 30/10/2023 21:26

I love changing the clocks, either way. I get excited for it like its special occasion. I'd be raging if they took it away.

I like this.
I tend to get a bit pissed off with the messing about with BST etc - but I like that you've framed the change as a positive.

SocialistSally · 30/10/2023 22:10

Coffeerum · 30/10/2023 21:31

So you never have a night where you sleep slightly less? Stay up a bit later? Need to wake up earlier?

1 hr doesn’t remotely have a jet lag effect.

Not really. My sensitivity means I keep a regular routine. As recommended by my medical team. When I have late nights and significant changes it effects me.

I can’t go to bed early as I have medication that has to be taken at 10pm. I felt hungry at 11, and feel all out of sorts as my body clock and feelings were out of sync with the time.

EnthENd · 30/10/2023 22:13

Usually it's the spring that effs with people more, but each to their own.

I know for one I couldn't stand GMT+1 year round. Having to get up and leave the house before dawn is miserable; using GMT in winter keeps those days to a minimum.

"Naturally" we would wake up based on the sunrise, not at some forced clock hour. The clock change actually means our wake-up times more closely follow the sunrise, but it's still considerably off.

Maybe in future computerised clocks will be so universal that we can automatically change the clock by a minute a day or something.

CherryMyBrandy · 30/10/2023 22:16

Weird. I barely notice the clocks going back - I often feel better if anything as you get an extra hour in bed. When the clocks go forward, however, it's awful, am exhausted for weeks. I am very much a night person though so really feel the effect on the morning wakings, maybe that has something to do with it?

CallieQ · 30/10/2023 22:22

1 hr doesn’t remotely have a jet lag effect.

Saying that 1 hour doesn't have a jet lag effect doesn't change the fact that I have felt jet lagged today OK? Why does everything on MN turn into an argument. I feel the way I feel

GettingStuffed · 30/10/2023 22:23

For me it's worse than jetlag. That one hour seems to put my body out of sync. It's even worse in the spring

Delatron · 30/10/2023 22:43

It only takes a quick google search to find lots of articles about the clock change and what is called ‘social jet lag’. It obviously affects some more than others. It’s not in people’s heads though. Many are impacted.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 30/10/2023 22:45

UncleHerbie · 30/10/2023 19:17

I’m more out of sorts when the clocks go forward in March and would prefer it to be GMT all year round

Yes very much me too. Especially as that’s the actual time.

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 31/10/2023 01:38

GCAcademic · 30/10/2023 20:17

Weirdly, it never used to affect me. It seems to have started in my 40s.

I'm in my 60s, and it hasn't hit me yet Smile

Mydogmybestfriend · 31/10/2023 02:07

Might be winter blues I use to get it but now I enjoy the winter season by socialising heavy

Topseyt123 · 31/10/2023 02:18

I hate clocks going back too. The earlier darkness in the evenings just feels so depressing and oppressive to me.

There's a gathering gloom that begins slowly from around 2pm and accelerates vastly between 3pm and 4pm, with total darkness not long after.

I count down the days now until the winter solstice (22nd December?) after which evenings begin slowly stretching out again. I then count down again until the end of March when clocks go forward again and lighter evenings are back. It's my coping mechanism for getting through the dismal winter months.

I wish we could stay on BST all year round as I do need the extra hour of light in the evenings. I know it would be darker for longer in the mornings, but somehow I cope with that far better because I know daylight is coming imminently.

Tomatina · 31/10/2023 02:35

Worst day of the year. Loathe the early darkness, and the knowledge that we've got another five months of this before the spring.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 31/10/2023 03:07

My trick has always been to go to bed and get up an hour earlier the week before the change and to do light exercise in that morning hour.

CliantheLang · 31/10/2023 04:02

Coffeerum · 30/10/2023 20:36

It’s one hour. Some of these posts are so dramatic.

Ahem:

Several US states have attempted to end daylight savings, although few have actually done so.

A 2022 bill to exempt Virginia said the “overwhelming conclusion” of researchers is that it “directly results” in an increase in heart attacks, traffic accidents, workplace injuries, pedestrian deaths and crime, as well as sleep disruption and a loss of productivity.

It said research has also found a link to seasonal affective disorder, strokes and cardiac arrest.

https://www.thenationalnews.com/world/2023/03/25/stop-the-clock-why-countries-are-killing-daylight-savings-time/

Dozens of countries around the world move their clocks and watches forward by one hour in mid or late March. Getty Images

Stop the clock: why countries are killing daylight savings time

Studies have suggested change results in increased heart attacks, traffic accidents and crime

https://www.thenationalnews.com/world/2023/03/25/stop-the-clock-why-countries-are-killing-daylight-savings-time

KimberleyClark · 31/10/2023 04:10

When I was working I hated the clocks going back because being in the office after dark made me feel really anxious and sort of trapped.

Differentstarts · 31/10/2023 04:48

Is it the clocks changing or is it winter and the darkness as it could be SAD ( seasonal affective disorder). Or do you also get this feeling in spring

Smurfmurf · 31/10/2023 06:24

bellac11 · 30/10/2023 20:33

I dont follow this, how would the clocks going forward at midnight on Saturday, mean that you are up at 3am on Sunday?

The clocks didn’t go forward, they went back an hour at 2 am. I woke at 4.40 on Sunday and really felt quite shit by t time on Sunday night. I woke at the same time again yesterday and today. I’m feeling pretty tired today and they day really hasn’t started.

SocialistSally · 31/10/2023 06:41

Differentstarts · 31/10/2023 04:48

Is it the clocks changing or is it winter and the darkness as it could be SAD ( seasonal affective disorder). Or do you also get this feeling in spring

I get it with both clock changes. I don’t get SAD, I love the winter!

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