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Please give me self-help book recommendations that really help

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freedomseeking · 28/10/2023 20:10

I am looking for ideas of books that have really helped to change your life. Perhaps not in large ways, but made a tangible difference. My problems are the usual: procrastination, focus, anxiety, self-doubt, people pleasing... you name it.

I have recently read The Now Habit which has helped a bit with the procrastination, but still looking for other things that assist! Thank you in advance.

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Maryamlouise · 28/10/2023 20:16

Indistractable
And the one that is called something like 4000 weeks
The Happiness project

StuffLoriThangs · 28/10/2023 20:18

The Fun Habit

not sure if it majorly different from The Now Habit…..I feel like it might be the same author?

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Isthispink · 28/10/2023 20:31

Atomic Habits is brilliant. Really practical and has definitely made a difference to my thinking.

iamsmaller1 · 28/10/2023 20:32

Compassionate mind book
I think this is a great book

familyconflict · 28/10/2023 20:43

Agree that Atomic Habits is really good and easy to read. Encourages small steps that made a big difference for me.

Girasolgiraffe · 28/10/2023 20:49

For people-pleasing, try Emma Reed Turrell, Please Yourself. This really made a difference for me - still go back and reread sometimes for a refresher. Lots of stuff out there on procrastination but I think the most succinct is by Tim Pychyl, Solving the Procrastination Puzzle.

1990thatsme · 28/10/2023 20:50

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 28/10/2023 21:03

How to do everything and be happy by Peter Jones
Nice girls don't get the corner office
The gift of fear

freedomseeking · 28/10/2023 21:08

Thanks all - some great recommendations there! Have downloaded them all to listen to on my commute.

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CSIblonde · 28/10/2023 21:14

CBT for Dummies. Great for anxiety, negative thoughts, catstrophising, self doubt, low self esteem, depression. Really practical useful strategies & advice in plain English, no psychobabble .

ACGTHelix · 28/10/2023 22:00

Here's a list of books that readers have found transformative in addressing issues like procrastination, focus, anxiety, self-doubt, and people-pleasing:

"Atomic Habits" by James Clear:

This book delves into the science of habits and provides practical strategies for building good habits, breaking bad ones, and mastering the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results.

"The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle:
Tolle's spiritual guide encourages living in the present moment, helping to alleviate anxiety and focus on the now.

"Deep Work" by Cal Newport:
Newport explores the concept of deep work and how cultivating this skill can help you focus without distraction and master complex tasks.

"The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz:
Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, this book offers four simple yet powerful agreements that can lead to personal freedom and a fulfilling life.

"Mindset: The New Psychology of Success" by Carol S. Dweck:
Dweck explores the concept of fixed vs. growth mindset and how changing one's mindset can lead to success and fulfillment.

"The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson:
Manson's book challenges conventional self-help advice and encourages readers to focus on what truly matters in life.

"Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl:
Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, shares his observations about finding meaning in all forms of existence, even the most difficult ones.

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie:
Carnegie's classic offers practical advice on improving social skills, communication, and building lasting relationships.

"The 5 Second Rule" by Mel Robbins:
Robbins introduces a simple technique to stop procrastination and take action by counting down from five.

"The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brené Brown:
Brown explores the power of vulnerability and encourages embracing imperfections for a wholehearted life.

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