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Limerence going on and on and on!

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DustyRhodesYell · 26/10/2023 21:23

Firstly I'm single and my crush is also single. We used to work together but I left, he subsequently left. We have bumped into each other once, but I couldn't think of a damn thing to say so I just ended the conversation with a 'see ya'
It's been three months and you would think a girl would move on, forget? But I haven't/ can't. I think I see him everywhere. I dream of another accidental meeting, I keep driving the same route that he used to commute along. Obviously he doesn't now!
It's getting ridiculous. I can't move on. I just feel so strongly but I don't even know him. I've spoke to him for probably forty minutes in total in five years! I remember when I first saw him I just felt he was the most mesmerising person I think I'd ever seen. I don't think that feeling ever went away.
Help!

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DustyRhodesYell · 26/10/2023 21:26

I should add that I have a brilliant job, hobbies, amazing kids, hobbies, studies, friends, ambition. This has just overtaken it all.

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Fourlegsandatail · 26/10/2023 21:27

Maybe contact him and ask if he would like a drink?

FrozenGhost · 26/10/2023 21:28

If you are both single, contact him. Why not?

DustyRhodesYell · 26/10/2023 21:30

I literally have no way of contacting him

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BabaYagasLittleSister · 26/10/2023 21:31

Do you have his number? Can you find him on Facebook? Just ask him for a drink, you've nothing to lose!

DustyRhodesYell · 26/10/2023 21:33

He's not on any SM (quite anti it) and I don't have his number.

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OriginalFloorboards · 26/10/2023 21:42

Is he on LinkedIn?

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