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pollyglot · 22/10/2023 22:46

write a book, at almost 74? It will require travel to the other side of the world and lots of resources for the research. Probably no-one will publish it, and no-one will read it. Am I wasting the few years I have left and should I just play bridge and walk the dog? Cheers.

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ScottBakula · 04/09/2024 18:51

Hi @pollyglot , how's things going ?

pollyglot · 04/09/2024 19:33

Hi Scotty! Well, Kirklees Council definitely will stock the books in the shop, they say...waiting on the bosses now for further info! On Book 4 now...will be back shortly.
Thanks for the encouragement, as always..x

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ScottBakula · 04/09/2024 19:44

Oooh that's fantastic! Let us all know when it's in stock so we can buy a copy .
Book 4 ?! Wow , when are you getting in touch with Steven Spielberg 😃

ScottBakula · 21/11/2024 00:03

Hi @pollyglot , I just thought I'd pop by and see if you are on book 15 yet 😄

pollyglot · 22/11/2024 23:26

Hi ScottBakula - lovely to hear from you! Here is my current lineup of babies:
(the blob is an obscured name...)

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pollyglot · 22/11/2024 23:27

Ooops!

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pollyglot · 22/11/2024 23:29

maybe now??

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pollyglot · 22/11/2024 23:29

sorry....will try again...not co-operating

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ScottBakula · 23/11/2024 11:35

Hi @pollyglot , turn it off and back on again , if that doesn't work threaten it with a big stick .
I have found that works for most things 😂

Onlyvisiting · 23/11/2024 11:37

If you will enjoy the creating even without a promise of publication and you can afford it- why not! It will be a good excuse to travel and have a purpose with it, not a waste of your life it it's fun and not leaving you in poverty. X

pollyglot · 23/11/2024 17:30

Will this work???

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pollyglot · 23/11/2024 17:31

Nooooooo!!!!!

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pollyglot · 23/11/2024 19:41

Yesss!! (hopefully...)

...to want to...
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ScottBakula · 23/11/2024 22:45

Wow that is amazing @pollyglot , they look fantastic. I can't wait to read all four of them

ScottBakula · 24/12/2024 15:22

Hi @pollyglot ,
I just wanted to wish you and you DH and DCs a wonderful Christmas. I hope you have a great day.

pollyglot · 26/12/2024 04:30

Scotty!!

Thanks for the lovely message! We had 18 for Christmas lunch!! It was amazing, but sooo knackering. I hope you had a great day too. Still planning the UK trip next year, so everything crossed... xx

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ScottBakula · 26/12/2024 20:17

Ooh that's a big get together , I bet you were still washing pots until this evening.
I hope you do make it over to the UK, you will get a warm welcome.

ScottBakula · 06/03/2025 13:23

Just a quick wave @pollyglot , I hope everything is going well

pollyglot · 17/05/2025 05:15

Hi Scottie (@ScottBakula), how are you doing in the lovely English spring?

Letting you know I'm almost 30,000 words into Book no 5!! You know I blame you, for all your moral support and encouragement! 🤗I will DEFINITELY be over that way before the end of the year, and will bring you copies. Get out your reading specs, girl! xx

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pollyglot · 17/05/2025 05:24

Here's an extract....

John McKinnon was a good man, her father had reassured her, upon John’s approach a year ago, to ask if he might pay his addresses to James Ferguson’s young daughter.The pretty, lively young Jane had caught the attention of McKinnon the previous year in the Linenhall congregation. She had attended the Kirk with her entire family, a handsome family indeed, dressed in the modest dark clothes appropriate for the presence of the Lord. McKinnon had noted the few glossy black strands wilfully escaping their strict confinement within the plain straw bonnet, to lie in teasing curls upon the crisp white linen of her collar. It was almost unbearably erotic, and McKinnon was overcome with shame at his response. In his usual manner of mental self-flagellation, he imagined the flames of hell that awaited any human being who fell from grace in such a manner, caught in the devil’s own net of lust, and in the Kirk, of all places. He glanced away, but his instincts resented his attempts at self-discipline, and despite himself, his gaze returned to the young lass whose beauty was likely to lead him into the paths of sin. He noted her ladylike observation of the inferiority of women, despite her good looks and the glances thrown her way by the youths in the congregation. Her neat figure, slight, yet with the promise of child-bearing hips and full bust he found highly alluring. He had not met a lass who stirred his blood in this way since the death of Morag twenty years since. Many young, and not so young women had made it clear that they would welcome his attentions, but he had chosen continence in Morag’s memory. It had been a heavy cross to bear.
Jane’s father had reassured her that Mr McKinnon was a man of God with an honourable trade. Besides, he was a Gaelic scholar, well-read and knowledgeable of the old ways of their common ancestral land. He could offer her a life of respectable comfort, a future not dependent on the land, on some isolated farm where she might well become an overworked drudge, working long hours milking and tending cows and cultivating potatoes. Most of all, of course, McKinnon was a fine upstanding Presbyterian of considerable community regard, whose occasional fiery preaching at the Linenhall Kirk had attracted widespread attention and respect. Surely, reasoned her father, it mattered not that McKinnon was a man of his own age, eight-and-forty. Nor that it was likely that a young lass of eighteen might find him attractive in the romantic sense. Romance was a ludicrous concept, in truth. The lads of Jane’s own age were but callow youths, with uncertain futures and few prospects. She would be a fool to turn down McKinnon’s honourable proposal for a handsome face and a fine manly figure.
Had James Ferguson been aware that McKinnon’s interest in his young daughter was motivated not by love but by practical matters, not the least of which was his long self-imposed chastity, he might have reconsidered his opinion. For, unknown to anyone, McKinnon had set his heart on emigrating, and the most important commodity for any emigrant was a wife. Not one of your fancy, fainty lasses with ne’re a thought but for her own looks and comfort, with soft hands and a weak back. Nay, what McKinnon was seeking was a strong and bonny woman, of a practical mind and able to turn her hand to any task. From a realistic point of view, an older widow, perhaps with a little money of her own would be the best choice, but he was reluctant to take an older woman, perhaps with the children of her dead husband, a woman who had been possessed by another, a woman with coarse hands and slack belly and breasts. McKinnon fancied a young maiden, pliable and able to be mastered. His ultimate ambition was to own land, an impossible dream in the Old Country; many spoke of the opportunities in the Colonies, where land was available to hard-working and driven family men. In Australia, or better, New Zealand, he had heard that grants of forty acres for a single man, and another forty for his wife, should he marry, were being given to those willing to face the wilderness. A young bride, with the vitality and strength of youth, to slake in her virgin flesh his lust, no longer a sin, but made honourable by the words of the marriage service, to bear him many sons whilst working with the dumb endurance of a draught animal upon his land, that was what he desired above all else.

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ScottBakula · 20/04/2026 20:25

WARNING I am resurecting a very old thread .

Hi @pollyglot how are you doing its been a long while since we have been in touch , how is the book writing going ? Did you get over to the UK ?

pollyglot · 20/04/2026 20:52

ScottBakula · Today 20:25
WARNING I am resurecting a very old thread .
Hi how are you doing its been a long while since we have been in touch , how is the book writing going ? Did you get over to the UK ?

Scotty! I'm so happy to see you! I was worried that you had disappeared, or even worse, emigrated to Australia...

Thanks to you, I'm on book 6 just now! My magnum opus, I feel...about the nurses of WWI and the ANZACs from Gallipoli, Exeter, Malta, NZ...my grandparents. We went to Newfoundland, Malta and Turkey last year, on the research trail, and are off back again next week...hopefully from Malta to the UK, depending on the jetfuel situation.
How are you doing? Are you well and thriving?
x

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pollyglot · 20/04/2026 23:16

A couple of samples...

Mary Somerville, a debutante of 1908 and a Colonel’s daughter, had begun her Red Cross training with Louisa in May of 1914. She had been filled with the zeal of doing something useful with her life but instead became one of the early casualties. Her two elder and one younger brother already held commissions in good County Regiments. Products of Sandhurst, naturally. Mary and Louisa became great pals and were each other’s “patients” in their wound-bandaging classes. Poor clumsy Mary could never quite grasp the principles.
Three months into their training, the probationers installed in the new hospital, Mary was still struggling. “I say, Lou, I simply can’t manage this ... how do you get this bit over that one? You make it all look so easy. Will you show me again?”

Lou patiently demonstrated repeatedly the technique. Mary’s stubby fingers with their bitten nails never quite accomplished it. She became increasingly flustered. Had her father the Colonel been present, he would have barked at her in the manner poor Mary’s friends had overheard on his only visit to the hospital. Mary was terrified of the red-faced Colonel, with his piggy eyes, shiny bald pate and bristling nose hair, bullying his daughter as he did the lowliest private; terrified, too, of Matron and of the professional nurses who despised her incompetence.

Her young brother, Hugo, a handsome subaltern and very fond of his sister, occasionally visited her on his motorcycle. He called her Mollie and treated her with kindness, taking her out in his sidecar on some of her precious afternoons off. He was evidently quite taken with his sister’s redhaired chum too, always greeting her as a great pal, with a dazzling smile and a warm, firm handshake.
On the day before The Queen’s Own (West Surreys) embarked for France, he sped up to the hospital in his sister’s brief lunchtime to say goodbye. He embraced her warmly, tipped her chin gently to brush away the tears, and kissed the tip of her nose.
“Cheerio Mollie darling, see you for Christmas. Buck up now, old thing, or you’ll have me blubbing too.”

Such gentle kindness was the cause of increased bullying among the more bitter professionals, having been encouraged by the Colonel’s treatment of his daughter. Mary became increasingly downhearted.

In early November, Mary received a brusque telephone call from her father. Lieutenant Hugo Somerville had been killed on October 31 at Ypres, leading his men from the front in a bold but futile attack. His actions had saved a number of his men, and he had been recommended for a posthumous Military Cross for his conspicuous courage.

Dulce et decorum est pro Patria mori.

A few days later, Mary began to shake, her hands to tremble. The next day, she was simply not there.

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pollyglot · 20/04/2026 23:25

27 August 1915, Hill 60, Gallipoli

Crouched in the old Turkish trench below that cursed hill, Jack Carrington knew that Death had come at last for him, and for his mates. Above them on Scimitar Hill, Hill 60, the Turkish machine guns had raked the flanks of the knoll without rest, hour after hour, the dusty soil erupting all around them in curiously disciplined lines. The massive bombardment by the Australian artillery had fallen short of its target; they were on their own, with only their rifles as a mental shield between them and the machinery of slaughter roaring around them.

Only minutes before, a white-faced George Comer, shaking, sweating hands gripping his rifle, had gasped, “Jack, I’m going to be killed today.” Jack had managed to articulate, “Mate, a lot of us are going to be killed today…,” glancing at his watch as the hands inexorably closed in on five o’clock.
Major “Bruiser” Taylor jumped to his feet, the whistle blew, he shouted “Charge!” Just one word as he fell flat on his face, shot through the head. The first line of men, with the assistance of their mates who gave them a leg-up, leapt from the trench. They went down like a row of ninepins.
The second line were thrown as bones to a dog by their desperately unwilling mates and met the same fate.

The Major dead, but now encouraged by the untested young officers, the third line was next to face the seemingly inevitable. They gathered their courage and on the demonic shrilling of the whistle, leapt out together, running across the open ground in the face of ferocious fire. To right and left, Jack caught sight of his brother Bill, his cobbers from the Gorge. With terrible screams of agony and fountains of blood, they were falling, falling, flailing limbs, exploding flesh.

A spear of pain in his throat, his belly, and Jack too, wheeled once and fell. He was dead before he hit the ground.

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pollyglot · 20/04/2026 23:43

If you can stand yet another, writing this made me weep like a baby...

The mellow autumn afternoons were gifted by Providence to allow the men some rest and respite after the morning ordeal of dressings, observations and medicines, washing and shaving, poking and prodding by the surgeons and sisters. The men who desired it were wheeled outside in their bed or a bathchair and placed on the sunny terrace. Newspapers were delivered to those able to hold and read them for themselves, or nurses read aloud to the disabled. Other patients created a conversation with a nurse should they have no visitor or mate to chat with. It became an unspoken custom for Trooper Carrington and his nurse to spend a quietly domestic half-hour together, the patient propped up on his pillows, the nurse seated on a low stool beside him, darning socks. They shared stories, carefully avoiding being too open in case it might appear forward and encouraging of unprofessional intimacy.

The trooper spoke wistfully of his farm in New Zealand. The cool, dappled bush, the muted melody of the clear Waiata stream, the velvet darkness, embroidered only by the golden threads of night birds’ sounds. Ruru, with the owl’s soft repetitive call, the kiwi’s peremptory shriek, the music of the bellbird at dawn. To Nurse Roberts, it sounded like a paradise of the unspoiled world before Man’s greed and anger. She loved the passion in his voice when speaking of the farm and his plans for making a go of it with his beloved brother. He told her, with a catch in his voice, of his last view of the homestead as they rode down to Opotiki on their way to battle. His brother had picked up his axe and driven it into the ancient rimu tree by the gate, saying “That’ll be safe there till we get back. Four months I reckon, eh, Bill? Six at the outside.”

Their ride down the Gorge and to their fate was filled with optimism. They were young. They were immortal. They were off to serve their King and their Country. The Good Lord had them in his hands.

“Well, Nurse, about the Mounteds…all the blokes, our mates from the Gorge wanted to go together. The recruiters were flattering, spoke of the Gisborne boys in South Africa, how they were the finest men they had ever seen for the African conditions. We would do well in the Jordan Valley, Mesopotamia, all the arid parts of the Near East, Ottoman territory, you know…Told us of our reputation as horsemen, crack shots, living off nothing, sleeping rough, all that sort of thing.”
Nurse Roberts nodded, despite having little idea of the Gisborne boys and their repute. She simply enjoyed listening to the trooper’s refined accent and easy flow of narrative.

The Trooper continued, “We fell for his patter, about how fortunate we would be to travel with our horses, an invaluable asset in the desert, all that. My mount, Jim, had had a few problems with his teeth, but he passed for service, as did Jack’s Bobby. We were very fond of those nags, Nurse. They had been our lifeline with civilisation, being at such a distance from town. Such good company, reliable and uncomplaining. It would be hard on them, travelling all that way by sea, no exercise, risking broken legs and so on. I felt a bit guilty, y’know, guilty about putting our old mates through that when they could have stayed back on the farm and been fat and happy, mustering in the mountains.”

Trooper Carrington paused, apparently some dust in his eye was giving him trouble.

“We reached Egypt all right, though had to spend quite a few nights in the straw with those poor beasts, to get them through rough weather. No exercise for seven weeks, poor beggars. No green grass to frolic in.”

He glanced at the Nurse, quietly working on her mending. “I’m not boring you, Nurse Roberts, am I?” he asked.

She shook her head, with a little smile. “Of course not, Trooper. It’s all so interesting. And so sad, I’m so sorry.”

He shrugged a little and continued. “At Zeitoun Camp, on the edge of the desert, the nags were tethered in lines under the Australian gum trees they grow there now. Hot as a furnace, Nurse. Poor creatures. Our time was divided between watering and caring for the animals, riding out for exercise, grooming and so on, and desert battle preparation. We cared for the horses of the boys of the Mounteds who had left for the Peninsula, too. Most never came back for them. We waited and waited for the expected orders, to ride out into the desert, with our mounts in best condition since the voyage. They suffered badly with the heat though, it’d be the hottest time of the year soon, and we couldn’t wait too much longer. We expected at any time another Ottoman attack on the Suez, y’know, like that of early February that the Indian troops did such good work in repulsing. Sikhs, Punjabis, Gurkhas. Brave men.”

Lou looked a little quizzical. The long hospital hours and focus on the Western Front had robbed her of time to read of the wider map of war actions. She did, however, understand the vital strategic importance of the Canal. She nodded.

“Well, time went by, the infantry was off to the Peninsula, leaving us behind, the stragglers, with a few bunches of reinforcements from time to time. The news was very sparse. We heard almost nothing of the Peninsula struggles. But gradually, news began to drift back to us of the conditions at the Dardanelles. The losses, it was said, were severe, despite attempts to keep it quiet. And there we were, stuck in Egypt, marking time while our mates were under hot fire.”

Again, he paused, his eyes haunted.
“Then suddenly, it was all on. We were off to the Peninsula. But we had to leave our horses behind. I felt I had betrayed my Jim. He had trusted me and come all this way. Nurse, what a quandary. The army had bought Jim, so he was no longer mine. But I was his. That was the tragedy. How could I leave him alone, in a foreign land, pining for his green grass and gentle rain? We really doubted that they would survive desert conditions, and if they did, they’d be sold to the locals. The Gyppos have no conscience about horses. You should see how they treat their own.”

The trooper paused, overcome by the sadness of the memories.
“Well, nurse, don’t judge me, but I’ll tell you the truth. Jack and I went out riding together early one morning. We came back carrying our saddles. Our horses had both had an accident, an unexpected hole they’d both put their hooves into, had broken their legs, both of them, and we were obliged to put them out of their misery. Couldn’t see them suffer, you know. One shot, they died, cleanly, without pain. We cradled their heads until they cooled. Stroked their muzzles, whispered to them of their beloved homeland. They died knowing we would never leave them nor betray them. D’you believe in a heaven for horses, nurse? If anyone deserved a heaven, it was old Jim and Bobby. Braver, more honest, more loyal than any puffed-up general sending thousands to their deaths. Sorry to have upset you, nurse, but I still mourn those noble animals.”

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