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To worry she will not do what will says

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Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:10

Short version - my aunt has died and fur some reason left her house to mr older sister on the understanding she sells it and splits the proceeds between her two kids and my two. No idea why aunt did it this way.

It does not say in the will when she must do this. Or that proceeds must be split equally.

Can she just keep the house for herself? Or sell it and give most of money to her kids? She is unfortunately quite capable of doing this.

We live in England.

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Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:14

Also will was written using write your own will pack not with lawyer.

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Atethehalloweenchocs · 21/10/2023 17:25

Unless there is something stating her wishes, I would guess your sister can do as she sees fit.

TheShellBeach · 21/10/2023 17:27

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:14

Also will was written using write your own will pack not with lawyer.

If it's attested properly it'll be valid.

What does it actually say?

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:32

That house (which is worth a lot) is left to my sister for her to sell or rent and split the proceeds between four kids. Does not say WHEN sale or rent should happen and does not say proceeds must be equally split so quite open to interpretation.

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Binkie98 · 21/10/2023 17:32

splits the proceeds between her two kids and my two

This wording implies equal splitting into 4.

TheShellBeach · 21/10/2023 17:36

Has your sister been named executrix?

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:36

Do I have any legal recourse if she doesn’t sell the house straight away and does something like move into it? Or if she does sell and gives only a small percentage to my kids?

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Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:37

Yes she’s executrix too

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TheShellBeach · 21/10/2023 17:38

You need to consult a solicitor if you think your sister will do this.

DaftyLass · 21/10/2023 17:39

It sounds like your sister can use any timeline, has she said what she plans to do?
I would speak to a solicitor for sure!

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:42

She’s mentioned the market not being a good time to sell and I’ve heard through my brother she said something about moving in in the meantime - it’s a much bigger house than hers. Technically she owns it so she could move in and um and ah about the market for a while.

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IncompleteSenten · 21/10/2023 17:47

You need a solicitor's help with this.

MereDintofPandiculation · 21/10/2023 17:50

You need a solicitor. Wills are much more complicated than any of us realise until we have to deal with one.

stayathomer · 21/10/2023 17:50

In the nicest possible way op, are you sure your aunt wanted you in on it? My granny said stuff to us over the years but the will was quite different- which is fair enough, sometimes you say things to people because you don’t want to deal with the fallout. Where does your db stand on this since he’s not mentioned either?

MrsPinkCock · 21/10/2023 17:52

It sounds like there’s a possibility the bequest may not even be valid. As PPs have said, wills are complex and there can’t be ambiguity. You need a lawyer!

CrabbiesGingerBeer · 21/10/2023 17:54

The answers to your questions are totally dependant on what the will says.

It might say “to [sister] for her life then to [children] in equal shares”, in which case she keeps the house until she dies then it goes to the kids.

It might say “to [children] with [sister] as trustee” in which case using the house for her own purposes is a breach of her duty.

Those are the two extremes - there are other possibilities.

If you have a copy of the will, you could black out the names and post it - someone may be able to advise.

Alternatively, I would suggest legal advice.

This is an example of why using a will pack with even a mildly complicated estate (e.g, where some of the beneficiaries are minors) is a bad idea.

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:54

DB not in the will at all as aunt seemed to want great nieces and nephews to benefit.

Will get to a solicitor! Thanks for replies.

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Florabadora · 21/10/2023 17:57

It was her own wording and it says - House to be left to my niece X, for her to rent or sell, the proceeds to be split between (names of 4 children).

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Finishingoff · 21/10/2023 17:59

She’s presumably under no obligation to sell as the will mentions renting, but she will need to split the proceeds four ways. Be careful that she doesn’t ‘rent’ it herself under the going rate.

Florabadora · 21/10/2023 18:01

God I never even thought of that but I wouldn’t put it past her - renting it for a sll
sum herself.

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HattieIou · 21/10/2023 19:14

If the will says split between that will mean equally. But yeah I think you need a solicitor as she can presumably drag her heels over it. But I don't see how she can move in, the will says rent or sell. She would only legally be able to move in of she was renting I assume?

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